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The Best Christmas Gift for Your Single BFF Is Amazon's $35 "Boyfriend" Pillow
Self-care isn't selfish. In fact, taking care of your physical, mental and spiritual health makes us the best we can be for our loved ones. And because self-care is important for everyone, if you know a person that needs to slow down and relax, a health-conscious gift that can help them do just that is a great idea.
With that in mind, we've put together this list of the best wellness gifts in the hopes that it will inspire even the most stressed-out person in your life to take a step back and practice mindfulness — and indulge in some much needed self-pampering. Whether you're shopping for your parents, hunting down a bargain for your sister or finding something your boyfriend will actually like, there's a self-care gift here for them.
The best way to choose the right gift is to think about what might be causing their stress. If they're suffering from work-related anxiety, a psychologist-approved gift for people with anxiety, like an essential oil diffuser that won't disrupt their daily routine, is perfect. When intrusive thoughts won't allow them to sit still, a meditation gift like a set of mindfulness cards could help. Physical pain (especially in the upper back and neck) can be addressed with an acupressure mat, while journaling is always great for spiritual health, making a wellness diary a smart pick. Or maybe they just need a #SelfCareSunday, which is an easy fix with the right spa day supplies.
No matter what they require, these gift ideas will help soothe their minds, spirits and bodies (and hey, maybe you'll find a few things you want for yourself, too!).
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1) Acupressure Mat and Pillow Set
ProsourceFit
amazon.com
$23.64
Like acupuncture without the needles, proponents of acupressure claim the practice can stimulate nerves and ease muscle tension, improve circulation and increase energy. Thanks to this cushioned foam acupressure mat covered in small, sharp spikes, they can give the therapy a try in the comfort of their own home — it also comes with a matching neck pillow that can also be used on feet. One Amazon reviewer claimed, "I have the worst spine in the world and this helped me."
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2) Light Therapy Lamp
Erligpowht
amazon.com
$20.79
If they suffer from the winter blues, a good light therapy lamp could potentially help boost their mood. "Light is just like diet and exercise; it's something we need for optimal health," says Mariana Figueiro, Ph.D., director of the Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute's Lighting Research Center. A perfect fit for their home or office desk, this budget-friendly pick features multiple brightness settings and a handy timer.
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3) Weighted Blanket
Tranquility
walmart.com
$26.57
With many weighted blankets running up to $200 or more a pop, this Tranquility blanket is a great pick if you're trying to stay on a budget. Our Good Housekeeping Institute testers found that it helped them stay cool thanks to its temperature regulating properties, while one tester also raved that "it helped alleviate my anxiety."
RELATED: 9 Best Weighted Blankets to Help Relieve Stress and Anxiety
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4) Women's Long Sleeve Pajamas
Ekouaer
amazon.com
$45.99
They can't relax without some super-comfortable loungewear, right? A bestseller on Amazon with thousands of rave reviews, this two-piece pajama set is made of buttery soft rayon blended with elastane for extra-comfy stretch. With over 40 different colors to choose from, one purchaser described them as "the best pair of pajamas I've ever had."
RELATED: 20 Best Pajamas for Women, According to Our Textile Analysts
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5) Eucalyptus Essential Oil Shower Steamers
Anovina
amazon.com
$16.99
Give them an energizing boost in the morning with this set of invigorating shower steamers.
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6) Wake Up Light Sunrise Alarm Clock
JALL
amazon.com
$42.98
Being jolted awake by a blaring alarm is decidedly not the most gentle way to start the day. With this sunrise simulation light, they can ease into their morning routine thanks to a gradually brightening glow and their choice of seven nature-inspired sounds, from crashing waves to chirping birds. With over 16,000 five-star ratings on Amazon, one reviewer said this alarm clock was "one of the most valuable purchases I have made in my adult life."
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7) Infinity Pillow
Huzi
amazon.com
$44.99
Available in eight different colors, this supportive neck scarf is like a puffy wearable pillow that will help them fall asleep pretty much anywhere, whether that's their couch or an airplane.
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8) Acupressure Massage Rings
Goda
amazon.com
$10.99
They can slide these stainless steel acupressure rings up and down their fingers to help relieve any built-up tension. The perfect present for anyone who works on a computer all day, no?!
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9) Aromatherapy Lavender Heat Pillow
KOYA Naturals
amazon.com
$30.95
After sticking this pillow filled with flaxseed and lavender buds in the microwave for a minute or two, her space will be filled with a calming herbal scent. But that's not where the relaxation ends: She can place it on any tight muscles or cramps to feel an instant sense of relief, too. (It can even be chilled in the freezer for cold therapy!)
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10) Self-Care Subscription Box
TheraBox
cratejoy.com
$35.00
Curated by actual therapists, this monthly subscription box includes up to seven hand-picked products (think: aromatherapy oils, skincare and other wellness-focused goodies) valued at more than $100, plus an activity designed to increase happiness. Choose from one, three, six or 12 months of deliveries.
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11) Boyfriend Pillow
Boyfriend Pillow
amazon.com
$34.99
If they're single and need someone to cuddle up with this winter, a cozy "boyfriend" pillow will provide some much-needed comfort. "I bought this as a joke and now I am a true believer," wrote one satisfied customer on Amazon. "My comfort levels are off the charts!"
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12) Women's Wicked Good Moccasins
L.L. Bean
llbean.com
$79.00
L.L. Bean has a hard time keeping its popular shearling-lined moccasins in stock each winter, and for good reason. Our experts in the Good Housekeeping Institute Textiles Lab love that they're made of high-quality materials, including the suede outer fabric and durable rubber soles.
RELATED: 16 Best Women's Slippers, According to Our Textile Experts
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13) Travel Fridge With Car Charger
Chefman
amazon.com
$46.44
An indulgent skincare routine can be the ultimate form of self-care — and this portable mini fridge is an ideal place for them to keep their lotions, eye masks and rollers perfectly chilled. Complete with a car charger, it's also great for road trips.
RELATED: 12 Best Skincare Fridges for Storing Beauty Products
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14) Mindfulness Cards: Simple Practices for Everyday Life
Chronicle Books
amazon.com
$11.60
Whenever they need a reset, they can pick a card from this deck to inspire rest, insight, curiosity or kindness. Along with an encouraging message, the card will outline different ways to put mindfulness to practice in their everyday life.
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15) Cordless Electric Tea Kettle
Cuisinart
amazon.com
$94.00
While this cordless electric tea kettle is on the pricier side, it's well worth it if they love to unwind with a piping hot cuppa. It features six different pre-programmed temperatures for optimal steeping of different types of teas, plus our testers in the GH Institute Kitchen Appliances Lab loved the easy-to-use viewing window and thick handle.
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16) Holiday Duo
The Sill
thesill.com
$90.00
Plants can improve the quality of the air in their home and boost their emotional well-being. Help them reap the health benefits of indoor plants with this greenery bundle from popular online plant delivery company The Sill, featuring a Norfolk Island Pine and Begonia Silver Point in matching planters.
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17) Collagen Essence Full Face Mask Combo Pack
DERMAL
amazon.com
$11.99
With over 30,000 reviews and a 4.5-star rating on Amazon, this cult-favorite Korean sheet mask set includes 16 different varieties designed to soothe and moisturize skin with collagen and vitamin E. Male and female reviewers alike swear these masks have helped improve their skin's texture and brightness.
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18) Pocket Spa Set
SweetgumBotanicals
etsy.com
$18.00
This tiny little box contains everything they need for a relaxing spa night at home: bath flowers, an herbal facial steam to open up pores and your choice of lavender lip balm or calendula-infused face oil (or both!).
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19) Extra Thick Reversible Yoga Mat
Gaiam
amazon.com
$39.99
Yoga has proven mental and physical health benefits. If they're just starting out with the practice, gift them this lightweight mat that was a favorite in GH Institute testing for its comfortable PVC cushioning and wide variety of reversible designs (there are over 30 colorful styles to choose from!).
RELATED: 12 Best Yoga Mats of 2022
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20) Motivational Water Bottle
Venture Pal
amazon.com
$20.99
If they've been trying to drink more water but just can't seem to reach their goals, get them on the right track with this 32 oz. water bottle that features hourly hydration reminders from 8 a.m. to 7 p.m. on its side.
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21) Wellness Journal
Papier
papier.com
$35.00
Help them on their wellness journey with this hardback book that includes guidance on setting intentions, keeping track of goals, creating healthy habits and more.
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22) Bagless Tea Sampler
Tea Drops
amazon.com
$15.99
Encourage them to sit back, relax and sip on a cup of hot tea with this set of herbal tea blends that come shaped like flowers, hearts and stars. Just toss one into a hot mug of water, and it's ready to sip in an instant!
RELATED: 38 Best Gifts for Tea Lovers
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23) Mental Health Gift Box
RoamHomegrown
etsy.com
$27.12
Everyone could use a mental health day — encourage them to take one with this gift box that comes complete with aromatherapy products, body oils, a scented candle and more.
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24) Himalayan Pink Salt Lamp
Himalayan Glow
amazon.com
$13.86
It seems like everyone on TikTok is obsessed with these lamps made from Himalayan salt crystals and for good reason: They deliver instantly calming mood lighting that can be controlled with a dimmable switch. You can even find mini night light versions on Amazon.
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25) Hug in a Box
SendaBoxfull
etsy.com
$38.21
Send this adorable care package to anyone who's been going through a rough time — it's a sweet way to show them you care when you can't be there IRL.
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26) Crystal-Infused Nail Polish
Love by Luna
uncommongoods.com
$18.00
If they're into new age cures, this crystal-infused nail polish is for them. Each color option features micronized crystals that correspond to a different astrology sign — for example, the Leo polish is packed with Tiger's Eye to "encourage constructive manifestation."
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27) Self-Care Minis Set
Mount Lai
amazon.com
$36.00
Esthetician Stephanie Zheng's grandmother, who practiced jade rolling and gua sha for over 50 years, inspired her to launch her Mount Lai brand. This gift set includes a mini version of the company's popular de-puffing face roller as well as two tiny bottles of its best-selling facial oils.
RELATED: 10 Best Jade Rollers for the Ultimate Self-Care Routine
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28) Giving Heart Pillow
DEMDACO
amazon.com
$38.38
When they give this knit heart pillow a squeeze, they'll feel the love. An added bonus: It has a slight weight to it, which may help calm them in the same way that a weighted blanket would.
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29) Permission to Pause Immunity Entourage Lollipops
Amborella Organics
amazon.com
$9.00
While there's no guarantee the ingredients in these so-called "wellness lollipops" will boost their immunity or improve their health, there's certainly no harm in giving them a shot! The positive affirmations written on the sticks (You are healthy! You are strong!) don't hurt either.
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30) Self-Care Sticker Book
Eccolo World Traveler
amazon.com
$11.77
If you're shopping for a teen girl, consider this sticker book. They can apply their favorites on notebooks, planners, laptops and more to always be surrounded with self-love and good vibes.
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31) Birthstone Mineral Soaps
Mariel Nader
uncommongoods.com
$24.00
Inspired by the shades and shapes of the 12 different birthstones, one of these hand-cut soaps will look so cool on her bathroom soap dish.
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32) Positive Messages in a Bottle
MESSAGE PILL CO.
amazon.com
$21.99
The positive messages in this bottle can be prescribed as needed, meaning they can open up a capsule whenever they need a quick pick-me-up!
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33) Book of the Month Subscription
Book of the Month
bookofthemonth.com
$49.99
If they love to spend their alone time with a good book, let the pros at Book of the Month pick their next great read. Their team picks out five favorites every month, then your gift recipient selects which one they want to receive. Choose from three, six or 12 month plans.
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34) The 5-Minute Gratitude Journal: Give Thanks, Practice Positivity, Find Joy
Rockridge Press
amazon.com
$8.99
Expressing gratitude for the good things in your life is a great way to stay mindful. Give them a journal for doing just that to help them along their path to wellness.
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35) Lobster Heating Pad
Cuckool
amazon.com
$30.99
A crustacean warming pillow for when they're on their period is simply adorable. When cramps get the better of them, they can quickly warm up the heating pad insert in their microwave (just make sure to tell them to follow the instructions to avoid burning the interior fill).
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37) Bamboo Bathtub Tray
ROYAL CRAFT WOOD
amazon.com
$50.97
With designated slots for wine glasses, books, candles, skincare products and bath time snacks, they'll be on their way to relaxation in no time.
RELATED: The Very Best Bubble Bath Products for a Relaxing Escape
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38) The Work Wellness Deck
Uncommon Goods
uncommongoods.com
$19.00
For those with a high-stress career, this deck of wellness cards offers dozens of creative ways to relax and recharge while still getting the job done.
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39) Essential Oil Diffuser and Essential Oils Set
URPOWER
amazon.com
$26.98
With over 50K five-star reviews on Amazon, shoppers rave that this compact diffuser is the "perfect size" and "easy to clean." In addition to filling your space with invigorating scents, it also emits a relaxing LED glow, thanks to seven color-changing light options. It can even function as a nightlight.
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41) “Dig It” Succulent Trio
1-800-Flowers
1800flowers.com
$42.49
Succulents are an instant mood booster, especially when they come in little marble planters etched with motivational phrases like "I will survive."
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42) You Are Made of Stars: Inspirational Quotes Adult Coloring Book
amazon.com
$5.99
As you may have heard, adult coloring books have a range of benefits, from decreasing anxiety to relaxing your brain. This gift also encourages self-love with its positive messages.
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43) Aromatherapy Essential Oil Diffuser Bracelet Gift Set
SOMORA
amazon.com
$21.99
If you ask us, there are few better ways to decompress than by surrounding yourself with scents from nature. This diffuser bracelet lets her add a few drops of her favorite aromatherapy scents to help get her to that peaceful place anywhere she goes.
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44) Spiritual Self Care for Black Women
Stress Less Press
amazon.com
$9.99
These days, spiritual self-care is more important than ever. If they're on a journey of self-discovery, this guided planner is filled with activities and tools to help them find their true purpose.
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45) Be Present Pin
MindfulThingsCo
etsy.com
$13.47
This adorable little pin can serve as a reminder to practice mindfulness, a.k.a. focusing on the present. There's even a set that includes a matching vinyl sticker — perfect for the college student who covers their laptop in stickers.
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47) Chandelier Candle
Otherland
otherland.com
$36.00
On the nights where she trades her social life for self-care, she'll feel extra indulgent when she lights this ultra-luxe candle, which smells like champagne, saffron and leather.
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48) Luxe Core Sheet Set
Brooklinen
brooklinen.com
$159.00
Give them the best gift of all — a good night's rest — with this top-rated set of cotton sateen sheets. In tests, our GH Institute textile analysts have found Brooklinen's fabric to be durable, holding upwell to repeated laundering, while our sleep testers rave that the material is "soft" and "smooth." There are 14 different shades and patterns to choose from, so you can easily find something to suit their design sensibilities, too.
RELATED: The Very Best Sheets For Your Bed, According to Lab Tests
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49) Buttah Body Trio
buttah. by Dorion Renaud
amazon.com
$69.99
Designed specifically to nourish melanin-rich skin, the luxe products in this pamper-ready gift set are loaded with deeply hydrating ingredients like cocoa butter, shea butter, Vitamin E and marshmallow root.
RELATED: 40 Black-Owned Brands on Amazon You Need to Know About
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50) Rose Quartz Gua Sha Tool
DEAYOKA
amazon.com
$9.99
Based in an ancient Chinese healing technique, moving sculpting gua sha tools in gentle upward motions can help relax facial muscles and ease puffiness. One GH editor loves using this budget-friendly Amazon pick in her relaxing morning ritual, noting that "the cool stone feels really nice up against my skin after applying moisturizer."
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51) One-Year Print Magazine Subscription
Good Housekeeping
goodhousekeeping.com
$6.00
Not to brag, but we feel like reading Good Housekeeping is the ultimate form of self-care! Consider gifting her a subscription for a year's worth of triple-tested recipes, science-backed product recommendations, delightful home inspiration, self-care ideas and more.
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52) Cervical Traction Device
Neck Cloud
amazon.com
$19.95
While not clinically proven, this gadget is a social media sensation with users reporting that it helped ease their neck pain. Developed by chiropractors, one reviewer noted, "This is the first product I have used that actually is effective."
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53) Reflexology Foot Massager Tool
ChiFit
amazon.com
$12.99
If they suffer from plantar fasciitus or foot pain, this foot massager tool may help, especially for runners or people who work out a lot. One reviewer said, "It is a handy and strong massager."
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