B.J. Novak Admits His Relationship With Mindy Kaling Was A "Romantic, Toxic, Boundaryless Mess"

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B.J. Novak opened up about his past romance with Mindy Kaling — and I kind of get why it didn't work out now.

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Over the weekend, B.J. honored Mindy with an eight-minute speech at the Producers Guild of America Awards, where she was receiving the Norman Lear Achievement Award in Television.

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While B.J. definitely had a lot of nice things to say about his BFF Mindy, he also reflected on their "tumultuous" romantic relationship.

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"We were in love with each other, and we were reckless idiots," B.J. said of the time the couple dated while working on The Office.

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He continued, "The two of us would argue about all of these things forever, grinding the writers room to a halt until we got too upset, and we'd go to our respective offices and slam the door, where we would continue arguing over AOL Instant Messenger."

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B.J. even went so far as to call their relationship a "tumultuous, romantic, toxic, boundaryless mess."

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And when The Office producers realized what had developed between the coworkers, B.J. says, they actually encouraged them to be together and gave them more scenes with each other.

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"There was no way out but through. We made it work or didn't work; we made it through," B.J. said onstage.

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Although B.J. and Mindy's romantic relationship wasn't a good fit, the pair clearly still have a lot of love for each other.

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"She cares so much about everything, and I care so much about her," B.J. concluded.

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You can hear all that B.J. had to say below: