This American Wife blends camp and confession by finding the “real” in Bravo’s Real Housewives

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From left to right: Patrick Foley, Jakeem Dante Powell, and Michael Breslin in This American Wife
From left to right: Patrick Foley, Jakeem Dante Powell, and Michael Breslin in This American Wife

From the moment the doors of the mansion open, This American Wife dumps us in media res to the performance within the performance. Patrick Foley, Michael Breslin, and Jakeem Dante Powell don their most over-the-top, Real Housewives-appropriate outfits and immediately begin reenacting a few of the franchise’s most iconic scenes. Phaedra Parks. NeNe Leakes. Luann de Lesseps. Bethenny Frankel. LeeAnne Locken. Many of the women of Bravo’s long-running unscripted franchise are represented, and Foley, Breslin, and Powell deliver each of their lines perfectly and with the gusto and passion of a music lover in the front row of a rock show. The rapid fire dialogue and the rapidly shifting camera work provides a frenzied delivery that mirrors the passion of the characters and their love for the Housewives.

While sauntering his way down the mansion’s grand staircase, Powell—who, like Fake Friends founders and This American Wife writer-stars Foley and Breslin, is a Yale Drama School graduate—recites a quote from a 2014 episode of RHOA. “Honey, you don’t know if your baby daddy will be an axe murderer or child molester!” he says. Over in another, equally ostentatious, part of the house, we get Real Housewives Of Dallas star LeeAnne Locken’s “I didn’t grow up with a silver spoon in my mouth!” This American Wife was filmed on location on Long Island, and though each of the livestream performances (which ended their run on May 29—a video on-demand staging is available through June 6) changed a little bit each night, 80% of the dialogue is Real Housewives quotes. And the trio, much like their reality show idols, spend the evening fighting, feuding, and airing out their dirty laundry in luxury.

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Michael Breslin and Patrick Foley
Michael Breslin and Patrick Foley

However, This American Wife isn’t all fannish enthusiasm with no substance. No. The “realest” moments of the show actually happen when the characters cut out the Housewives dialogue and speak honestly about their non-fandom lives. Each cast member picks up the camera and—after some verbal prodding—starts sharing. “I want to open you up,” Patrick tells Michael while behind the camera. He then asks Michael what his favorite Housewives house is, and though it seems like a pretty innocuous question at first, it’s actually a jumping off point. Viewers learn that in his youth Michael struggled with absentee parents, feelings of neglect, and he even used to force himself to do chores as a way to gain control and stability in his life.

When Patrick and Jakeem get their chance in front of the camera, they get “opened up” in a similar way. “Who’s your fave Housewife?” Michael asks Jakeem. “What kind of porn do you watch?” Jakeem asks Patrick.

Jakeem, who we learn idolizes Kandi Burruss from Real Housewives Of Atlanta, has body image issues. He is uncomfortable in his own skin and as a direct result, he distracts himself by worshipping and envying—in equal parts—Kandi’s curves. Shortly after Michael discusses his porn-watching habits and preferences, viewers learn that in college he was sexually assaulted by a man with a rainbow mohawk.

During all three of these “interview” scenes, it becomes clear that their love for the Real Housewives franchise was born from past trauma. For many people who participate in fandom (even in more passive ways), the objects of their obsession can be a pretty powerful escape from real life.

Even during those emotionally wrought scenes, it’s clear that Foley and Breslin never wanted the performance to lose its camp, surrealist edge. And though the show adapted to adhere to our pandemic-induced “new normal,” this is still a queer theater performance. Which is why during the three “real” interviews, the actors who aren’t being grilled are in the next room performing a trippy, absurdist task, like playing with a plastic snake in an empty bedroom, unpacking Fake Friends-branded groceries, or packing a suitcase. Once they stop being “real” in one scene, they exit the room and the Real Housewives-style performance is back on.

In an interview with Architectural Digest, Foley explained that he and Breslin viewed the Real Housewives women as actors giving their viewers the performance of a lifetime. Not unlike drag queens and acting troupes who get dolled up every night before stepping in front of an eager crowd, the Real Housewives casts command their stage. “We were in drama school when we started to work on this, and a big impetus was to situate these women in the context of great heroines and great performance artists,” Foley said. “Certainly someone like Bethenny or Lisa Rinna are incredibly skilled at telling stories for a certain medium.”

On the surface, that’s exactly what This American Wife is too: three friends coming together to live out the dream of every television or film super fan— getting all dressed up and acting out of their favorite scenes. But This American Wife is also the story of three queer friends finding community and solace within each other, getting to share their very real trauma and very real pain while bonding over Real Housewives and using the series as a much needed bit of escapism.