37 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend During Date Nights, Text Convos, and Everything in Between

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Photo credit: Kelsey McNeal/Hulu / Design by Yoora Kim
Photo credit: Kelsey McNeal/Hulu / Design by Yoora Kim

There’s nothing more exhilarating than falling for someone you really, really like. You want to know everything about them, and while yes, of course, you want to know the small things like their favorite movie and go-to snack, there’s nothing better than sharing a deep, thoughtful conversation. Whether you’re hanging after school, or texting late at night (hours after you should’ve gone to bed, tbh), there are so many questions to ask your girlfriend to feel more connected to them.

Communication is one of the most important aspects of a relationship, and it’s crucial to understand your girlfriend’s inner thoughts and feelings. Recognizing their love language can help you meet their needs, while knowing their favorite food can help you plan the perfect date night. You might learn these details about your girlfriend through shared experiences, but asking questions during a text or in-person conversation allows you to be a little more intimate with each other. You could even learn something really significant, like if they’ve ever been in love or don’t necessarily believe in soulmates, that not only lets you understand your girlfriend better, but your relationship better. Here, a list of interesting and thought-provoking questions to ask your girlfriend to learn everything about her.

Fun Questions

If you could only watch one show for the rest of your life, what would it be?

What’s your favorite reality show of all time?

Who is your celebrity crush?

Are you an early bird or a night owl?

Are you always early, on time, or late?

Do you have a favorite sports team?

What book (or books) changed your life?

Who’s your favorite TikTok follow?

Would you ever delete social media?

What’s the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?

Do you have a hidden talent?

What’s your favorite food of all time?

Have you ever had pets?

Do you believe in ghosts?

Juicy Questions

How do you feel about PDA?

Who was your first kiss?

Could you see us getting married someday?

Do you believe in soulmates?

Who was your first crush?

Have you ever been in love?

What’s your love language?

Do you ever dream about me?

Do you believe in marriage?

Do you keep in touch with any exes?

Thoughtful Questions

Where do you see yourself one year from now?

What was your first impression of me?

How would you define our relationship in three words?

Do you ever feel misunderstood?

What is your biggest regret?

What is your biggest fear in life?

When’s the last time you cried?

When are you happiest?

What’s something about yourself that might surprise others?

Who is your best friend?

What family member are you closest with?

Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?

What’s your proudest accomplishment in life so far?

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