20 Quotes That Will Make You Love Your Body Even More

Photo credit: Mik Zazon Instagram
Photo credit: Mik Zazon Instagram

From Cosmopolitan

Bodies come in all different shapes and sizes. Some have curves, others have scars, maybe stretch marks, also muscle, and probs hair in places not deemed “appropriate” according to societal standards. But one thing that is certain: Your body is the only body you get. And that makes it pretty damn special.

Besides allowing you to dance to “WAP” and bake banana bread as many times as you damn well please, remember that your bod also contains vital organs necessary for survival. What I'm trying to say is that it deserves a lot of kindness for just existing. Your body is yours completely.

Unfortunately though, societal pressures and standards responsible for making women think their bodies aren't good enough (hi, trash diet culture) are everywhere. And while it’s completely normal to feel insecure at times, it doesn’t have to consume you.

If you’re feeling down or just need some ~positive~ vibes right now, these quotes from actual body positive activists and badass people will make you feel all the warm fuzzies.

Obvi, you don't have to love your body, but accepting it for the amazing things it does for you is more important than how it looks. Promise.

Megan Crabbe

“Touch your body without shame or embarrassment or thoughts of it needing to be something else. Give yourself a hug before bed and tell yourself that it will be okay. Touch yourself with kindness every day—you’re in this relationship for the long haul.”

Ericka Hart

"Wearing a bikini, being topless while being surrounded by the hot ass sun, and ignoring the funny looking white cis man implanted in my brain saying, “Are you sure you gonna go topless? “Suck it in someone’s looking!” is a newfound kink."

Eli Erlick

“Performing your gender for others can’t make you happy, only you can.”

Anna Sweeney

“Being unkind to your body in any given moment won’t change your body in that moment. It will change the way you feel about being in your body. You can interact with your body differently. You can choose your body back. Regardless of how easy or difficult it is to live there.”

Mik Zazon

“Just because we have acne, tummy rolls, and chaffing thighs doesn’t mean we need fixed. Period.”

Lauren Leavell

“Forget your good angles, forget your airbrush. Forget your no panty lines. Forget your smooth bellies. Forget your perfect hair. Forget your hairless armpits. Forget your clean rooms. Bring me your real bumps and curves and your forehead zits. Bring me your granny panties and your scars. I’m here for it.”

Jessamyn

“You don’t need an excuse to feel good about yourself.”

Olakemi

“Remember that our bodies are always changing, and that’s okay. What’s really unhealthy is trying to fit into an unrealistic norm of what is seen as perfect.”

It’s Dana Fitness

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𝐟*𝐜𝐤 𝐚 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡 𝐠𝐚𝐩 — 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘯𝘰𝘵⁣ ⁣ we need to stop idealizing something that we have little control over. we are way more critical on ourselves than anyone else ever would be. we have socially constructed this idea of the perfect body, when in reality no one is perfect. so my question is why do we give this so much value when it truly is not that important?⁣ ⁣ all my life I have been criticized for my ⁣weight. growing up I was constantly told that I am too skinny. in high school girls told me that boys would never like someone who was so “boney.” teachers would ask me (in front of the class) if I had been eating or if I needed to talk to someone. I was constantly told to eat more or I would “disappear”. ⁣ ⁣ one of the reasons I got into fitness was because I knew gaining muscle is another way to put on weight. currently, I am at the heaviest weight I’ve ever been and I’m proud of the progress I’ve made. — BUT to this day, people are still telling me i need to gain weight and that i need to eat more — the thing is, what most people don’t know is how hard I struggle to maintain this weight. I’m constantly stressing about gaining weight and if the number on the scale goes “too low”, my anxiety goes through the roof. ⁣ ⁣ and even while some people are telling me I’m too skinny, others are telling me I have “too much muscle for a girl.” the point is — you are never going to satisfy everyone. the number on the scale is JUST THAT. A NUMBER. it is NEVER okay to shame anyone for their appearance && I’m here to remind you that your body is beautiful no matter what your weight is!

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“Some people are telling me 'I’m too skinny,' others are telling me 'I have too much muscle for a girl.' The point is you are never going to satisfy everyone. The number on the scale is just that. A number. It is never okay to shame anyone for their appearance and I’m here to remind you that your body is beautiful no matter what your weight is.”

Kai Wes

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Quarantining in 2020 aka self isolation with human connection found on the internet. I was thinking today about how our current state is not unlike the sensation of feeling ‘trapped’ in a trans body in anticipation of transition. Fear and the unknown await. There isn’t enough science to truly understand the physiological affects to the fullest. You are forced inward, to self reflect. You have no choice but to face yourself. Trapped with yourself. There is no escape. You’re in isolation together. Society thinks you’re dangerous. So you find solace in the knowing that this state is temporary. That this is not forever and one day you’ll be welcomed back into society again. Once they deem you “safe” and “acceptable” to their standards. Feeling that frustration. And in this dizzying cerebral mess you find solace in the virtual connections you find online. You see there are other people — just like you. Feeling the exact same way. And suddenly being isolated to your own body and mind doesn’t feel so... alone. Sending out extra special love to my trans/NB/GNC fam pursuing physical transition that have had to postpone doctors appointments, legal paperwork, or gender confirmation surgeries. Please know I see and recognize your anxiety during this time, I know it’s so hard to be patient. I know it’s hard to feel trapped with yourself. But you can do this. We are the most resilient folks I know, we’re gonna get through this 💙 #thisiswhattranslookslike #transinquarantine #covid_19

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"You see there are other people — just like you. Feeling the exact same way. And suddenly being isolated to your own body and mind doesn’t feel so... alone."

Rae Ann Langas

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I am wearing a lowrise bikini! WHAT?! I haven't worn a lowrise bikini in years because like all of you, I am on my own confidence journey. My stomach has been an area of my body that I have struggled with accepting for as long as I can remember but when I put on this bikini from @figleavesofficial, I felt GOOD, like really GOOD. That goes to show that you should always be trying things outside of your comfort zone. ad As I have begun to understand our society's obsession with flat stomachs and the never-ending pursuit for abdominal perfection, I have been able to work through why I feel so self-conscious about this area of my body. Ways to get flat abs have been flashing in our faces since I was a little girl (and long before). Standing in the checkout line at the grocery store the magazines were flooded with headlines that read "Flat abs FAST," infomercials for the ab lounge (remember that one?) claimed to melt belly fat and transform you body in just a few minutes a day. Even as I was scrolling through Tiktok I saw trainers posting "3 workouts to banish belly fat." I mean, no wonder we are ashamed to show off our stomachs! I'm here to tell you that having a flat stomach doesn't make you more worthy, it won't make you happier, or more successful. You don't need a toned stomach to wear a bikini. I shared more details on this swimsuit in yesterday's Bikini Breakdown! You don't want to miss it! I shared three suits from @figleavesofficial and talked about why I love their suits and their brand. Head over to my IGTV to check it out.

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“Having a flat stomach doesn’t make you more worthy, it won’t make you happier, or more successful. You don’t need a toned stomach to wear a bikini.”

Harnaam Kaur

“Shine a great light on your most amazing qualities. We tend to focus on the negative aspects of us and forget all the greatness that we have within.”

Cece Olisa

“Don’t wait on your weight to live the life you want.”

Kali Kushner

“I used to think that sharing photos of my skin was brave. I’m not brave, I’m just not ashamed. My skin will constantly change. Age. Wrinkle. Scar. Breakout. It’s not brave to accept that. Grant yourself permission to accept yourself in all your changing forms.”

Ash Soto

“The sky is limitless and so are you. Loving yourself is easy, the hardest part is continuing that mindset. But as long as you push, you’ll always come out stronger than before.”

Gabi Fresh

“While romantic love is great, self-love and platonic love are also necessary and wonderful. You don’t need a reason or another person to get dressed up, do your makeup, or explore a new thing.”

Mansi Ugale

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“I was born like this, it’s not like I chose it for myself. But that hasn’t stopped the constant barrage of strangers and my own family telling me how to ‘look healthy’. Even in school I would be stopped randomly and asked if I’m ‘Malnourished’. I’ve overfed myself, tried all kinds of unhealthy diets and made myself feel really miserable. Nothing worked. Once, I remember when I was getting out of the house — my brother looked at me and said ‘Ew’. That hurt me a lot. Things got so bad that I believed everyone I met was judging me for how I looked. It became the central part of my life. I stopped going out, wearing certain clothes, being active in class all because I was scared that I’d be made fun of. It was as if my entire life had come to a halt. But the last straw was when I was standing at a bus stop with a friend. I was wearing a crop top and jeans. A lady came to my friend and whispered something in her ear. Later my friend told me that the lady asked my friend to tell me not to wear ‘such clothes’ as it was very unpleasant to look at. It was demeaning and disrespectful -- I was shocked. But when I cooled down — I realised that I needed to stop giving a damn about people’s opinions. I realised that I was sidelining my happiness and running away from my reality — only because it wasn’t meeting other people’s expectations. What good was that doing me? When was I going to start putting myself first? I decided that enough was enough. If people didn’t like how I looked, it was their problem. Not mine. I was finally ready to fight back, because I wanted to love what I saw in the mirror. I am who I am. And I’m proud of it. Nothing changes overnight though, I’m still trying to heal little by little. I’m still learning to accept myself. But what’s important is that I’m at least trying. Because in a world where fingers are pointed and judgements are passed at the drop of a hat I’m going to do myself a favour and love myself so hard, that even the haters will finally learn to live and let live!”

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“I was born like this, it’s not like I chose it for myself. But that hasn’t stopped the constant barrage of strangers and my own family telling me how to ‘look healthy.’ But I decided that enough was enough. If people didn’t like how I looked, it was their problem, not mine. In a world where fingers are pointed and judgements are passed at the drop of a hat, I’m going to do myself a favor and love myself so hard that even the haters will finally learn to live and let live.”

Catherine Li

“All bodies are swimsuit bodies.”

Sarah Nicole Landry

“It will bother some people greatly when you start to work on loving yourself. Do it anyway. It will cause some to critique your every more or thing. Keep going anyway.”

Lalonie Davis

“Don’t ever let anyone make you feel bad for being who you are or doing what you want to do. You are deserving of self-respect and love no matter the decisions you make with your body. Body hair is normal and so are you.”

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