23 Actresses Who Played Moms to Actors the Same Age

Hollywood casting is truly a hit-or-miss situation. Sometimes the casting is so perfect that you couldn’t picture a better ensemble. Then, other times, you’re questioning how no one said anything to stop it from happening. Way more often than it should, Hollywood keeps casting women who are way too young to play adult celebrities’ moms.

We don’t know why, but Hollywood seems to have a mental block when properly casting mothers. At first glance, many seem fine — until you see the actor’s ages. You’d think there would be a sizable difference between the actors, but some are as little as 10 months. From 10 months to 12 years older, we don’t understand why Hollywood has a problem casting moms properly.

And on top of that, sometimes the actresses who play the moms are younger than their on-screen children. We have questions (and you probably do too).

With the time news broke that Emmy Rossum was being cast as Tom Holland’s mother, despite only being ten years older, everyone wanted to know: “Why does Hollywood not know how to cast moms?” From the X-Files to Alexander, there’s a lot more miscasting than you think.

Check out these actresses who were way too young to be cast in these mother roles below.

A version of this article was originally published on Feb 2022. 

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“It is so funny because I was 27. It was a really beautiful kind of double-edged sword because I love that movie so much. And the whole experience was incredible, and the movies continue,” she said. “I love Ingrid Cortes. But it was funny because I was 10 years, at least, too young for the role because I was a spy for 10 years and then somehow had children who were like 9 and 11. So it was physically totally impossible.”

Olivia Wilde in ‘In Time’

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For those who don’t know, the 2011 film In Time follows a world where time means everything, and everyone has a clock on their arm that counts down how long they have left to live. You can transfer time, steal time, etc; an everyone, no matter if you were really in your 80s, look like they’re in their 20s.

So, Olivia Wilde played Justin Timebrlake’s mother Rachel. We know everyone is supposed to look younger in the film, but Wilde is still three years younger than Timberlake in real life.

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“I couldn’t be more flattered that people don’t think of me as a grandmother (no matter how possible it is at the age of 47),” the actor told HuffPost. “I’m proud of my performance in the film and it’s fun to see it go viral.”

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Elizabeth Debicki in ‘Guardians of the Galaxy Vol 3’

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Sally Field in ‘Forrest Gump’

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Drew Barrymore in ‘Riding in Cars With Boys’

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Estelle Getty in ‘Golden Girls’

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Jessie Royce Landis in ‘North By Northwest’

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Ginnifer Goodwin in ‘Once Upon a Time’

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Toni Collette in ‘Little Miss Sunshine’

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Jennifer Coolidge in ‘American Pie’

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Kelly Rowan in ‘The O.C.’

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