10 Ways to Make Any Relationship Last 1. Take your partner's breath away. 2. Do something special on a regular basis. 3. Engage in lots of eye contact. 4. Learn what pleases your partner sexually. 5. Teach your partner what you like. 6. Boost lasting love with sexual novelty. 7. Do something edgy. 8. Do something great for someone your partner loves. 9. Summarize and immortalize loving moments. 10. Boost the love chemicals.