Thoughtful Gifts For Someone Who's Lost A Loved One This Year

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Thoughtful gifts for someone dealing with grief this time of year.  (Photo: Emily McDowell)
Thoughtful gifts for someone dealing with grief this time of year. (Photo: Emily McDowell)

The holidays are supposed to be about family, happiness and thoughtful gifts that make you smile. But what about those friends and family members who might be going through a hard time and are grieving this time of year?

The holidays can be hard because they often serve as a reminder of who is missing. While finding the right gift for someone who’s grieving might not fix everything, it’s a gentle reminder that they’re loved by those around them.

From gifts to help them smile to gifts that’ll remind them of their missing loved one, use this holiday season to help those in your life who find this time of year particularly hard.

Below, check out our guide to sentimental gifts for someone dealing with grief this holiday season — because they deserve it.

Take a look:

A "So Sorry" Harry And David basket

A nice Harry And David basket, for when you just don&rsquo;t know what else to say. <a href="https://fave.co/2YYmdm7" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it at Harry And David</a>.
A nice Harry And David basket, for when you just don’t know what else to say. Get it at Harry And David.

A card that's different from the rest

A <a href="https://fave.co/38oEf5p" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">card</a> that&rsquo;ll make them smile, but that also tells it like it is. <a href="https://fave.co/38oEf5p" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it from Emily McDowell</a>. 

A pin about the good things to come

<a href="https://fave.co/2swF5wr" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">This &ldquo;Braverite&rdquo; fantasy stone pin and card</a> that &ldquo;enhances the resolve to pick up the broken pieces and create something beautiful.&rdquo; It&rsquo;s a nice gift that puts into words what most of us cannot. <a href="https://fave.co/2swF5wr" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it at Emily McDowell</a>. 

Their handwriting, memorialized

Have something lying around with their signature or handwriting on it? Turn it into a memorable gift by having a loved one's words put on a necklace or bracelet for them to wear. <a href="https://fave.co/2LH57E9" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Etsy seller CaitlynMinimalist creates unique</a>, one-of-a-kind personalized handwriting jewelry in a variety of styles and colors. <a href="https://fave.co/2LH57E9" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it on Etsy</a>.

A personalized photo book

Pictures speak a thousand words. Create <a href="https://fave.co/2YCQvup" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">a photo album</a> they can flip through on their own time. They&rsquo;ll love having their favorite photos in one place, you&rsquo;ll love knowing you gifted them something they&rsquo;ll enjoy forever. <a href="https://fave.co/2YCQvup" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it at MixBook</a>.

A way to get out their pent-up feelings

Workout classes like kickboxing are an easy way to get out a whole closet-full of emotions. What better place than a fist to the bag? If you&rsquo;re not sure what workout your giftee will enjoy best, <a href="https://fave.co/36pI7l0" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">we recommend a ClassPass gift card</a> so they can try out several workouts. They&rsquo;re guaranteed never to get bored. <a href="https://fave.co/36pI7l0" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it at ClassPass</a>.

A personalized bottle opener

Was the person they are grieving someone they'd have a drink with? <a href="https://fave.co/2sj0QzB" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">This personalized memorial</a> bottle opener lets them tap glasses every time they crack open a cold one. <a href="https://fave.co/2sj0QzB" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it on Etsy</a>.

Plant a tree in their memory

Consider planting a tree in the name of someone who&rsquo;s gone. It&rsquo;s a gift you can't go wrong with. <a href="https://fave.co/2OOb97Q" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">This olive tree</a> is a nice reminder of things to come. <a href="https://fave.co/2OOb97Q" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it at Uncommon Goods</a>.

A personalized book of support

<a href="https://fave.co/2YBSlvM" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">This sweet book</a> that&rsquo;s a secret weapon of support. Fill in the blanks, and this book transforms to a personalized gift for your friend who&rsquo;s going through something shitty. <a href="https://fave.co/2YBSlvM" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it from Emily McDowell</a>.

A sympathy ornament

Sympathy or memorial ornaments are a way to spread some extra love during the holiday. Personalize it for an extra special touch that will light up their tree, <a href="https://fave.co/2P7rtjY" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">like this wooden photo ornament</a> or this <a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/748574019/memorial-ornament-memorial-christmas" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">personalized memorial ornament</a>. <a href="https://fave.co/2P7rtjY" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get them on Etsy</a>.

A journal they'll want to write in

Not everyone likes to talk about their feelings. <a href="https://amzn.to/2EkLfCF" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">This leather-bound journal</a> is a great way for them to get their thoughts on paper, even if it&rsquo;s just for themselves. <a href="https://amzn.to/2EkLfCF" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it on Amazon</a>.

A pin they'll appreciate

The things that require the most courage often go unrecognized. Give them <a href="https://fave.co/2tp0eJu" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">this pin</a> that puts into words what they&rsquo;re going through &mdash; and recognizes it as the feat it is. <a href="https://fave.co/2tp0eJu" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it from Emily McDowell</a>. 

Personalized wind chimes

Who doesn&rsquo;t love <a href="https://fave.co/2EmFyUu" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">wind chimes</a>? You can personalize these wind chimes with a name, message and even a tune. <a href="https://fave.co/2EmFyUu" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it at Personalization Mall</a>. 

A gift that takes care of dinner for them so they don't have to

If the loss of their loved one was recent, don&rsquo;t underestimate the power of a home-cooked meal. Send some groceries their way or, better yet, meals they won&rsquo;t have to cook at all. Grab <a href="https://fave.co/2KhfU71" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">a GrubHub gift card</a> so they can choose from their favorite local restaurants. It&rsquo;s a small gesture they&rsquo;ll appreciate. <a href="https://fave.co/2KhfU71" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Grab a gift card at GrubHub</a>. 

A useful book

Books are a great gift anytime, but <a href="https://amzn.to/2S4P3QB" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">this book</a> hits an encouraging note for those dealing with the grief.  It&rsquo;s a good way to remind them it&rsquo;s OK <i>not</i> to be OK. <a href="https://amzn.to/2S4P3QB" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Get it on Amazon</a>.

Pay for their treatment at a spa or salon

Gve your friend or loved one a stress-free spa or salon day to help them relax. Find a spa near them using <a href="https://fave.co/2P60G7L">Spa Finder</a>, snag a gift card, and they&rsquo;ll be on their way to relaxation.
Gve your friend or loved one a stress-free spa or salon day to help them relax. Find a spa near them using Spa Finder, snag a gift card, and they’ll be on their way to relaxation.

A donation to a cause they're passionate about

Not every gift needs to be tangible. Consider donating to a charity that is near and dear to their heart this holiday season instead. 
Not every gift needs to be tangible. Consider donating to a charity that is near and dear to their heart this holiday season instead.

Drop in and offer your time

Offer your time and help. They won&rsquo;t ask for it, but they&rsquo;ll definitely appreciate it.
Offer your time and help. They won’t ask for it, but they’ll definitely appreciate it.

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