Spicy Bedroom Moves To Bust Out Tomorrow Night
With Valentine’s Day just around the corner and with those Fifty Shades of Grey trailers airing nonstop, the urge to get out of that sex rut is at fever pitch. (Photo: Getty Images)
To help, we asked some sexy people—aspiring porn stars, sex experts, and even a Real Housewife, to be exact—for fun bedroom ideas. Prepare yourself for twists on tried-and-true positions, plus some slightly more adventurous moves.
Do It Standing Up
"Who needs a bed? The standing doggy-style position is ready for action anytime, anyplace," says Claire Cavanah, Babeland cofounder and coauthor of Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. Just prop yourself up against something steady—a wall, the kitchen counter, the back of your living room sofa—and, well, you know the rest.
Let Him Push Your Buttons
Real Housewives of Atlanta star Kandi Burruss suggests setting the mood by putting on a pair of remote-control vibrating undies (like the Control Me set from her sex-toy collection, Bedroom Kandi) early in the night. “He will have fun pushing all your buttons while you get steamy attempting to keep your composure,” says Sunny Megatron, sex educator and host of Showtime’s Sex With Sunny Megatron.
Spice Up Spooning
As you lie on your side, bend your knees into your chest while your guy curls around you from behind. Your bent knees allow you to feel different angles than with a regular side-by-side position, says Jane Greer, Ph.D., a New York City marriage and sex therapist and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship.
Try a New Take on Missionary
Missionary might be the oldest trick in the book, but have you tried it with the coital alignment technique? Your guy shimmies up on your body so that his pubic bone is rhythmically massaging your clitoris with every movement. Speaking of, tell him to shift up and down or in circles, not in and out. “This minor adjustment in pelvic positioning will bring you to orgasm through penetration more frequently than any other position,” says Rachael Ross, M.D., Ph.D., a sexologist and cohost of The Doctors.
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Use Sexy Music to Your Advantage
"Ask your partner to queue up his favorite mood music and play it through his headphones loud enough to block out external noise. Next, add a blindfold. With hearing and sight gone, every touch he feels will be intensified," says Megatron. Stroke, rub, and kiss his entire body as he squirms—then if it turns you on too, give him oral. Then switch roles for your turn.
Open the Sex-Toy Box
If you’re into oral, grab a small vibrator—like Bedroom Kandi’s Hip Hop—and hold it against the area underneath his balls (a.k.a. the perineum), says Burruss, who shared this fun tip on the show. “The vibration will drive him crazy.”
Play Show-and-Tell
"Put on your hottest lingerie, sit your partner down, and tell him to get ready for a sexy X-rated private show. The catch is he isn’t allowed to touch you," says Megatron. Letting your guy see you orgasm through masturbation is a huge turn-on. "If watching you come was not important, faking orgasms would not be as prevalent in both the privacy of your own bedroom and in front of lights and cameras within the porn industry," says Blair Williams, a contestant on the reality porn competition show The Sex Factor.
Give Him Your Number
For a modified take on the sixty-nine, lie on your side, with your feet at his head and vice-versa. In this yin-and-yang position, both of you should be able to move your pelvises back and forth during oral, increasing stimulation, says Dr. Ross. If you’re feeling it, reach around to massage his boys as an added Valentine’s Day treat.
Pay Attention to His Whole Body
Burruss recommends showing some love to sensitive but often forgotten body parts. For example, don’t just suck on his digits—been there, done that. Instead, take your guy’s hand and lick in between his fingers for a whole new sensation. Or get touchy-feely with the back of his knee or the crook of his elbow for a sensual experience he won’t expect.
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Play House
"I’ve found that simply taking your existing sexual preferences and moving them about the house can add a decent amount of excitement," says Barry Newport of The Sex Factor. He suggests the kitchen countertop because it’s "a good source of sweets and other goodies that can be used during foreplay," like chocolate and whipped cream.
Create Your Own Mini Red Room
While a sex swing might be fun, it also requires hardware and power tools—and not the fun kind, says Cavanah. If you want to channel your inner Anastasia and Mr. Grey (or the Ringling Bros.) with less commitment, she suggests the Door Jam Sex Sling. It turns your bedroom door into a suspension system with minimal fuss.
Keep It Simple
"Sometimes the sexiest move is being subtle," says Greer. So go with the less-is-more theory to tease and build anticipation. Telling him you’re not wearing underwear under your skirt might be the simplest—but most powerful—move to spice up the holiday.
Watch Something Dirty Together
Instead of going to the movies, throw a naughty viewing party for two at home, says Hero D. of The Sex Factor. Talk about the aspects you find most appealing or arousing about your porn picks, and then test them out.
By Michele Laufik
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