Yes, Men Can Wear Lingerie Too: The Best Loungewear and Underwear Upgrades for Valentine’s Day
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Men, what are you wearing behind closed doors? With Valentine’s Day quickly approaching and millions pursuing love, the stakes are high. Whether you’re keeping the romance alive or initiating a spark, it’s time to elevate your approach. This year, for Valentine’s Day, we want to see men pull up in lingerie.
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“When it comes to men dressing for the female gaze, my libido lives somewhere between Heath Ledger in 10 Things I Hate About You and Christian Bale in American Psycho. A blend of bad boy and rock and roll softness, with attention to grooming and hygiene,” fashion editor Lizzy Rosenberg tells Rolling Stone. It’s about taking care of yourself, and we’re here to help you not get caught with your pants down in raggedy drawers.
If you prefer a consistent and safe approach to underwear, prioritizing fabric quality and classic shapes is the easiest place to start. The faded, pilled, or even threadbare underwear in your drawer right now is not doing you any favors. If you want to be bold, try the same shapes in a print.
We’ve compiled a list of our favorite lounge and lingerie for men to help make your 2024 Valentine’s Day something to remember. Even without plans, these are a great gift to be worn either alone or to be seen.
Best Boxers and Boxer Briefs for Men on Valentine’s Day
Assorted 5-Pack Cotton Boxer Briefs
$64.50
Currently available in men’s S-XXL
Promising Customer Feedback: “They are extremely comfortable, durable, and feel nice. I discovered these 4 years ago and refuse to wear anything else.” —Fransic
Savage X Satin Boxers
$29.95
Currently available in men’s XS-4X
Promising Customer Feedback: “The satin boxers are always a staple in my sleepwear, especially with a matching tank or crop top. I usually go XXL to get the loose-fitting feel, but with these, I would go one size down. Can’t recommend them enough.” —Ryan
Calvin Klein Microfiber Boxer Briefs 3-Pack
$37.79 $46.90 19% off
Currently available in men’s XS-XL
Promising Customer Feedback: “I buy these for my boyfriend and he loves them! He always asks for this kind for Christmas and birthdays!” —Makayla Shaw
Hanes Premium Leopard Print Briefs
$8
Currently available in men’s S-XL
Promising Customer Feedback: “These look nice, feel nice and seem to be pretty descent. My advice would be to go up a size or even two if you are blessed in the front or have a dump truck.” —macpappi
Arjen Kroos Mesh Boxer Briefs
$9.99
Currently available in men’s S-3X
Promising Customer Feedback: “I wanted to spice up my man. I got him the red and honey, and he looks so good. You can see the skin, and they are soft. I will be buying him more. They are hot.” —Wavan Jonez
James Perse Lotus Boxer Short
$105
Currently available in men’s 0-5
Editor Feedback: James Perse does a great job at bridging the cool and casual gap with their laidback contemporary style. Finish off your bedroom look with some Tom Wood signet rings and a chain necklace. —Lizzy Rosenberg
Savage X Performance Long Boxer Briefs
$29.95
Currently available in men’s XS-4X
Promising Customer Feedback: “I really liked these boxer briefs…..the fit, the fabric, the style are on point. This is definitely something I would wear when I am going out to party or hang out. Not a go to work type of situation. I want these on when I am expecting that someone is going to be seeing me wearing them….and appreciating the view!” —Art
Tom Ford Leopard Print Boxer Briefs
$110
Currently available in men’s S-XL
Editor Feedback: While I don’t own this specific print, I religiously swap between my Calvin Klein briefs and these Tom Ford ones. They feel like a second skin and hold up to washing incredibly. Bring out your inner jungle cat for Valentine’s Day or date night with a sexy leopard print brief. You and your partner will thank me. —KLR
Best Jockstraps and Thongs for Men on Valentine’s Day
Versace Greca Jockstrap
$75
Currently available in men’s S-3X
Editor Feedback: For a brand label, these are not only incredibly well-priced but also very well-made. I love larger waistbands like these on a jockstrap, and like all Versace products, the design feels sexy yet surprisingly classic. —Kyle Lamar Rice
Fleur du Mal Bouquet Lace Thong
$88
Currently available in men’s XS-XL
Editor Feedback: I own two pairs of Fleur du Mal thongs, and quite frankly, I’m not sure why more men don’t. Not only are they more unrestricted than traditional underwear, but they immediately add sex appeal and confidence. —KLR
Yuyangdpb Thongs 3-Pack
$15.99
Currently available in men’s S-XXL
Promising Customer Feedback: “The modal material feels amazing and the cut of these thongs is super comfortable. Very sexy feel in these!” —Jerry
Calvin Klein Cotton Jock Strap 3-Pack
$32.57 $45 28% off
Currently available in men’s S-XL
Promising Customer Feedback: “I love how it holds everything in place and makes it snug. The bands are thick and great and make it feel like they won’t break and it’s just perfect as a whole. I’m very impressed.” —Mark
Fleur du Mal Lily Embroidery Thong
$88
Currently available in men’s XS-XL
Editor Feedback: Not all lace is quality lace, fellas! I’ve fallen victim to buying lace underwear that unravels at the seams or pokes into my skin. It doesn’t get better than Fleur du Mal, and this embroidery thong is the perfect Valentine’s Day surprise for anyone’s partner. It also sports nice support too which is a plus. —KLR
Tom Ford Jockstrap
$63
Currently available in men’s XS-XXL
Editor Feedback: I don’t own these anymore since I’ve upgraded to Versace; however, if you want a jockstrap that not only offers support outside of the bedroom but adds to your sex appeal in the sheets, these are it. The material holds up quite well through washes (cold water only) and the classic black design goes well with any other lingerie you might have, like silk robes. —KLR
Best Staples and Loungewear for Men on Valentine’s Day
Tony & Candice Satin Pajama Set
$27.99 $42.99 35% off
Currently available in men’s M-XXL
Promising Customer Feedback: I normally do not wear pajamas, but needed a pair for a pajama night. I am a somewhat big guy, 6’2″, 250 pounds, and these pajamas fit perfectly. They were lightweight and silky soft. They seem to be made of high-quality material and well constructed.” —Garrett
Fresh Clean Threads Crewneck Tee
$22
Currently available in men’s M-3X
Promising Customer Feedback: “Very comfortable, slightly stretchy t-shirt that washes up great. They come a tad large, but after washing, they fit just right! I’ve bought four and will be buying more in the short future.” —Iacomus Anglia
James Perse Lotus Jersey Loung Pant
$225
Currently available in men’s 0-5
Editor Feedback: Many people love grey sweatpants season for a very specific and visual reason. However, I’m not quite sure people understand how much they would love it everyone wore these. The thin and soft material is not only immensely comfortable, but it shows EVERYTHING. Bring these into the bedroom for Valentine’s Day and give your partner(s) a sneak peek of what’s to come. —KLR
Goodfellow & Co 4pk Ribbed Tank Top
$17
Currently available in men’s S-XXL
Promising Customer Feedback: “My husband is picky and seems to really like these the quality is great more thicker than Hanes & Fruit of the loom +reasonable pricing these are his new go-to!!” —MiaG
Tony & Candice Satin Robe
$34.99 $59.99 42% off
Currently available in men’s M-XXL
Promising Customer Feedback: “It feels great on the skin. The matching pajamas shorts is a plus, and there’s also a button in the crotch. It fits great, I bought a size medium. I’m 5’8” and 160lbs btw. A definite must-buy.” —Eddie Santana
Huckberry Proof Crewneck Tee
$88
Currently available in men’s XS-XXL
Promising Customer Feedback: “I watched every t-shirt review on YouTube and bought t-shirts, some far more expensive, from six or seven makers. This one is the best looking, the most comfortable, and fits the best. I’m going to order more.” —Robert J.
SWOMOG Silk Satin Pajamas Set
$27.99
Currently available in men’s S-XXL
Promising Customer Feedback: “My girlfriend had a set similar she got from her sister’s wedding, and I always wanted to pair to match, so she got me them for Christmas. They fit perfectly, and I love the feel of them.” —baconlover123
Skims Relaxed Straight Leg Pant
$78
Currently available in men’s L-5X
Promising Customer Feedback: “Got this for my boyfriend and he could not love them more. Says they have a “cooling” effect.. he could not be happier! Highly recommend!!” —Caroline M.
Polo Ralph Lauren Robe
$90.85
Currently available in men’s S-XL
Promising Customer Feedback: “I have been searching for an appropriate robe as a staple in my lounge ware for about 3 years now. This is the one. Many other robes I have purchased are too big of puffy and make me look like I’m about 30 lbs more than I am (I’m 6’1” and 155 lbs and got the size small). This is the perfect mix between having a nice tailored fit while still being loose enough to be cozy.” —Zack
Alexander Del Rosa Satin Pajamas Lounge Set
$39.99
Currently available in men’s S-3X
Promising Customer Feedback: “These pajamas are very nice, the color is rich, the quality is excellent this could easily be sold at a high end dept store and it washes well!!! My husband loves them” —ANewBelt
How We Decided the Best Valentine’s Day Lingerie for Men
Style is incredibly subjective. That is why we take care in choosing the clothing, shoes, handbags, and jewelry that we present to our readers. While we review trends to showcase fashion-forward selections, we also rely on promising customer feedback or first-hand experience with the products and brands. The result is a carefully considered shopping list with you in mind.
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