Why Vanessa Hudgens is Grateful for Austin Butler Split

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Vanessa Hudgens is glad she went her own way.

The High School Musical alum reflected on her nine-year relationship with ex Austin Butler while sharing how she feels her past romances ultimately brought her to husband Cole Tucker.

"I feel like so much of my character was built from my breakups," Vanessa explained on the She Pivots podcast's March 6 episode. "My last breakup had really catapulted me into a very, very special place."

"It pushed me to the right person, which I'm so grateful for," she continued, adding of Cole, "He is just the most supportive, real, understanding human being that I've ever met."

Vanessa and Austin broke up after nearly a decade together in early 2020. And since then, the former couple appear to have found what they'd been looking for. The Elvis star began dating model Kaia Gerber in 2022, while the Spring Breakers actress tied the knot with Cole in Tulum, Mexico, in December.

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And ahead of the nuptials, the 35-year-old admitted the planning process was overwhelming—in the best possible way.

"It is so much," she told E! News in November. "So many things to decide on. And it's hard for me because I love so many different styles."

And ultimately, the planning process worked out as she and the baseball player were absolutely soaring, flying after their wedding.

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"It was genuinely the most magical weekend of my life," Vanessa told Vogue in December. "I am so grateful that we got to have a private wedding, and it helped that I took everyone's phones away. It was amazing because at the dinner, I would look around and everyone was talking to each other—our family and friend groups coming together and creating real relationships that I know they're going to invest real time into."

She added, "I couldn't have dreamt it to be any better."

Keep reading to relive some of Cole and Vanessa's fairytale love story.

February 2021: Instagram Official

February 2021: Instagram Official


November 2021: <i>Tick, Tick... Boom!</i> Premiere at AFI Fest

November 2021: <i>Tick, Tick... Boom!</i> Premiere at AFI Fest

The couple made their red carpet debut as a couple at the premiere of the film, starring Vanessa, at 2021 AFI Fest in Hollywood, Calif.


November 2021: <i>Tick, Tick... Boom!</i> Premiere in NYC

November 2021: <i>Tick, Tick... Boom!</i> Premiere in NYC

The two attended the premiere of the Netflix movie in New York City.


February 2022: Valentine's Day

February 2022: Valentine's Day

"Happy vday from us crazies," Vanessa captioned this Instagram pic.


February 2022: John Mayer Concert

February 2022: John Mayer Concert

The two watched John Mayer perform at Los Angeles' Hollywood Palladium for SiriusXM and Pandora's Small Stage Series.


February 2022: SAG Awards

February 2022: SAG Awards

The pair walked the carpet at the 28th Screen Actors Guild Awards in Santa Monica, Calif.


<p>April 2022: MLB Opening Day</p>

<p>April 2022: MLB Opening Day</p>

"Happy opening day my [king]," Vanessa captioned this Instagram tribute to her partner, a Pittsburgh Pirates player at the time, which she shared on the MLB's opening day in 2022.


<p>September 2022: Play Ball</p>

<p>September 2022: Play Ball</p>

The actress appeared with her partner on the baseball field.


October 2022: Happy Halloween

October 2022: Happy Halloween

"Happy Halloween from Sting and Miss Argentina," Vanessa captioned this Instagram pic.


December 2022: Holiday Spirit

December 2022: Holiday Spirit

"Merry af," Vanessa captioned this Instagram photo.


<p>February 2023: Engaged</p>

<p>February 2023: Engaged</p>


<p>May 2023: Wedding Planning</p>

<p>May 2023: Wedding Planning</p>


<p>December 2023: I Do</p>

<p>December 2023: I Do</p>


<p>December 2023: The Start of Something New</p>

<p>December 2023: The Start of Something New</p>

Cole celebrated Vanessa's first birthday as a married woman with a romantic tribute reading, "Happy birthday to my wife!!!!!!"


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