Sandra Bullock is getting real about marriage and what it means to her with boyfriend Bryan Randall after a rocky divorce to ex-husband Jesse James — and she’s telling it all on Red Table Talk. It’s the perfect place for The Unforgivable star to talk about a difficult topic since Jada Pinkett Smith and her family have created a safe space for Hollywood to have those awkward conversations.
The subject of marriage came up in the episode when Bullock took a fan question about dealing with the pressure to marry after a divorce — especially when there’s no desire to walk down the aisle, only a wish to raise a family together. That’s something the actress has a bit of insight on after divorcing James in 2010 due to his infidelity issues and starting a relationship with Randall in 2015. Bullock and her photographer boyfriend both came to the table with kids — her son, Louis, 11, and daughter Laila, 8, and his older daughter from a prior relationship. Calling Randall the “love of [her] life,” she broke down the situation in pretty straightforward terms.
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“I am someone who went through the divorce process,” Bullock shared with Smith. “I found the love of my life. We share two beautiful children, three children — his older daughter. Best thing ever. So, I don’t want to say do it like I do it, but I don’t need a paper to be a devoted partner, a devoted mother. I don’t need to be told to be ever-present in the hardest of times. I don’t need to be told to whether a storm with a good man.”
She emphasized that her choice may not work for everyone’s situation, but she made it clear that their priority was raising a healthy and happy family together. Even if things didn’t work out, she was confident that Randall would still be a part of the kids’ lives — and we can’t help but think about her ex, who dipped from Louis’ life after their split. That was a traumatic event that probably weighed heavily on Bullock and helped her make decisions with Randall about moving forward with what felt best for their family.
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