Lorde Says 'Being Bold Is Vital' When Navigating Through the Music Industry: 'I'm a Shy Girl'

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To all the shy girls out there — Lorde gets it.

The singer-songwriter, 24, opened up in an interview with Variety for their Power of Women issue about what it's like navigating through the music industry as a "shy girl" — and why it's vital to be able to stand up for yourself.

"Being bold is vital because people are only going to listen to you if you speak up," Lorde told the outlet.

"It's hard for me — I'm shy, I'm a shy girl. But, you always regret not being bold, and you very rarely regret toughening up and doing it," she continued.

When asked if she thought a woman's creative decision is more closely scrutinized than a man's in the industry, Lorde said there are "specific archetypes that people want you to oscillate between."

"I'm sure there's a double standard. I almost don't think of myself as a female artist sometimes, just because I'm less an object of desire," the "Mood Ring" singer said.

She continued, "I don't feel bound to the systems of our industry the way a lot of women do, which is a really privileged spot to be in."

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With that being said, she's also always looking at the industry from an outsider's perspective to keep a safe distance.

"It's a game and if you know the rules, you also know how to break them," she said. "If you think that the industry is real life, you're going to run into problems. It's fantasy and archetype."

Lorde released Solar Power on Aug. 20, a highly anticipated album that revealed a newfound sound for the singer — inspired by new-age and wellness in a mix of sincere and satirical lyrics.

However, Lorde realizes that her sound is much different from her darker 2013 "Royals" hit — and said it's "all good" if fans no longer like her music.

"A lot of people got into my music as a teenager," Lorde explained. "If you're ready to move on, it's all good."

Lorde attends the Christian Dior Designer of Dreams Exhibition cocktail opening at the Brooklyn Museum on September 08, 2021 in Brooklyn City
Lorde attends the Christian Dior Designer of Dreams Exhibition cocktail opening at the Brooklyn Museum on September 08, 2021 in Brooklyn City

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Earlier this month, Lorde was initially set to perform at the 2021 MTV Video Music Awards, before the award show announced the cancellation.

The "Stoned at the Nail Salon" singer addressed the cancellation and said she simply couldn't "make anything less than outstanding" for her fans.

"I saw some people were very concerned about me pulling out of the VMAs, you're so sweet, I'm totally fine!" Lorde wrote in a newsletter to her fans at the time. "It's just that we were planning this insanely amazing many-bodied intimate dance performance, not fully understanding the (very necessary!) safety protocols that are in place, and the masking and distancing just meant it wasn't gonna be what I dreamed, and you know I can't make something less than outstanding for you guys."