Jason Isbell Speaks Out After Divorce from Amanda Shires: 'I'm in a Good Place' (Exclusive)

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Jason Isbell, who filed for divorce in December, opens up about navigating his split in this week's issue of PEOPLE

<p>VALERIE MACON/AFP via Getty</p> Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires in March 2023

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Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires in March 2023

Jason Isbell is making the most of a difficult situation when it comes to his split from Amanda Shires.

The singer-songwriter, 45, filed for divorce from his wife and bandmate in December, citing irreconcilable differences. Now, he’s opening up about navigating the road ahead — and what that looks like for his family, which includes their 8-year-old daughter Mercy.

“We’re all getting along right now. It’s hard and sad, and I don’t enjoy it, but ... I’m in a good place,” Isbell says in this week's issue of PEOPLE. “Mercy’s happy. She knows, no matter what, she’s going to be loved and safe and cared for.”

Isbell and Shires, 41, married in February 2013, and in the decade that followed, they forged a powerful musical bond; she played fiddle and sang backup for his band, the 400 Unit, while he played guitar for her country supergroup The Highwomen.

But on Dec. 15, two months before the pair would have celebrated their 11th wedding anniversary, Isbell filed for divorce in Tennessee, indicating in court documents that the couple had split a week-and-a-half earlier.

<p>jason isbell/instagram</p> Jason Isbell and ex Amanda Shires with their daughter Mercy in 2021

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Jason Isbell and ex Amanda Shires with their daughter Mercy in 2021

Though Isbell’s song catalog is rife with deeply personal love songs, like “Cover Me Up” and “If We Were Vampires,” the Grammy winner (who took home two wins earlier this month, including one for best Americana album) has no plans to steer clear of the tracks inspired by his marriage.

“Once I was done writing those songs, they didn’t really belong to me anymore,” he says. “If I said I can’t sing [these songs] now because of what’s happened in my own personal life, then I would be discrediting the emotional experience other people have had with them. For me it’s a matter of honoring other people’s connections with that music and also my own past. Just because something ended doesn’t mean it failed.”

For Isbell, a decade-plus of sobriety has also aided in his ability to find clarity amid challenges.

Related: Jason Isbell Files for Divorce from Amanda Shires After Nearly 11 Years of Marriage

Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires
Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires

The star got sober in 2012, and has been public about his marital strife over the past few years; in 2020, he revealed how the stress of making his album Reunions caused him to push his loved ones away, and in 2023, Shires and Isbell shared their relationship turbulence in the documentary Running With Our Eyes Closed, in which they discussed marriage counseling.

“If you go through your life in recovery and continue to improve, you become more honest as time goes on,” he says. “I’ve had to have a lot of conversations I didn’t want to have, but I had to be honest with myself and the people I care about. Part of aging, if you’re doing it right, is saying things out loud that you would have been afraid to say when you were younger.”

Following the release of the Grammy-winning Weathervanes in June, Isbell also flexed his acting muscles with a role in Martin Scorsese’s Oscar-nominated Killers of the Flower Moon. He and his band are currently on tour, and will play North America before a string of European dates in the fall.

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