I'm a midwife and I wish more people knew the way I handle miscarriages and terminations can be the same

Someone holding three RU-486 Mifeprex abortion pills.
Medical abortions that involve taking a combination of pills are considered very safe but are typically only available to people who are within 10 weeks of pregnancy.Bill Greenblatt / Contributor / Getty Images
  • I'm a midwife, writer, and advocate.

  • I care for people in all stages of their pregnancy, which includes early loss and elective terminations.

  • This is what I wished more people knew when it comes to language we use for abortions.

After 50 years of precedent was overturned with the Supreme Court's Roe v. Wade decision, there has been a lot of confusion about what individual states are now going to do when it comes to a person's right to access a safe and legal abortion.

I think it's important that healthcare providers change the language they use about abortion to reflect the realities of the time.

As a healthcare provider, it is essential for me to take the time to educate people about what is happening to their bodies with clear, intentional language and discuss their options thoroughly so there is no confusion for anybody — whether that's an individual or a legislator.

Abortion is an umbrella term

Abortion has become a singular concept indicating a termination of pregnancy, especially in the context of Roe v. Wade, but it's really an umbrella term for several conditions that indicate the need to remove products of conception from a person's uterus.

Healthcare providers know that each type of abortion — spontaneous, threatened, incomplete, missed, septic, elective — is possible, even normal, and natural. The clinical management of them is the same, but lots of people don't know that.

For people whose pregnancy was wanted, but ended in a loss, hearing words like "abortion" is often devastating. It can add to the confusion, anger, grief, or guilt someone feels about their early pregnancy loss or miscarriage.

Providers often do not explain this early pregnancy loss in a way that honors it for what it is: a loss. It's often generalized under "abortion services" in the explanation of next steps, in the documentation within the medical record, and even through diagnosis and billing codes.

But it's important that people understand the nuances of these terms and the consistency of these procedures, especially in the context of changes to abortion services in several states.

Early pregnancy loss and termination abortions are managed in the same way

Typically, an early pregnancy loss will pass naturally on its own within four weeks after the fetus' demise, but the risk of bleeding, infection, and other significant health concerns increases over time.

A discussion with a healthcare provider and continuous monitoring of bleeding status and vital signs are necessary if a person elects expectant management. Having access to the resources of active management, also known as abortion services, like taking mifepristone and misoprostol, using manual vacuum aspiration, or having a dilation and curettage at any point during an early pregnancy loss is essential.

As a midwife, I have changed the language I use to reflect the experience a person is going through. I make sure to use the words "pregnancy" and "loss" instead of abortion when someone is experiencing a miscarriage. I ask if they want to name their baby or have any type of ceremony that honors their loss.

We discuss the options of expectant management or active management: The choice is up to the individual to wait until the pregnancy passes naturally on its own — if safe — or, if there is an urgency for completion, move forward with necessary procedures.

In visits for both an early pregnancy loss or an elective ending, I discuss the safety of administering the pills in the comfort and privacy of their personal space, performing the MVA under a local anesthetic in an office setting, or the need for a D&C that is performed under general anesthesia, often in a hospital setting.

How abortion services will change post-Roe 

It's important that medical providers meet people where they are with terminology for an early pregnancy loss and elective ending, because the words doctors, midwives, and nurses use may be the difference between ensuring a safe outcome and someone being arrested or fined in a post-Roe world.

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