Here's How Taylor Swift Changed Her Controversial "Better Than Revenge" Lyrics On "Speak Now"

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This is not a drill: Taylor Swift has updated the lyrics to her Speak Now song "Better Than Revenge."

If you're not familiar with the "Better Than Revenge" lore, we must return to the '00s. In 2010, Taylor said that the song "is about a girl who a few years ago stole my boyfriend, and I think she probably thought I forgot about it, but I didn’t."

Close-up of Taylor holding a microphone and wearing a flared dress
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As such, the lyrics are largely addressed to the woman in question — with the chorus including, "She's an actress, whoa / She's better known for the things that she does on the mattress." Taylor herself appeared to have mixed feelings about the song in later years, as she said in 2014, "I was 18 when I wrote that. That’s the age you are when you think someone can actually take your boyfriend. Then you grow up and realize no one take someone from you if they don’t want to leave."

Close-up of Taylor onstage in a stadium
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The song is heavily rumored to be about Joe Jonas's relationship with Camilla Belle in 2008. In fact, it's not the only song to have allegedly been written during the Joe-Taylor fallout — "Much Better" by the Jonas Brothers is oft thought to be one such tune.

Taylor and Joe sitting together

Fast-forward to midnight, and Taylor dropped her rerecording of Speak Now. Although Spotify's lyrics still include the old ones, if you listen to the Taylor's Version of "Better Than Revenge," you can hear that the "mattress line" has been changed to "He was a moth to the flame / She was holding the matches."

The text for the line from the song

When Insider reached out to Taylor's reps for comment, they directed them to a scene in Taylor's 2020 documentary Miss Americana where she talks about "trying to deprogram the misogyny in my own brain," explaining, "There is no such thing as a slut, there is no such thing as a bitch, there is no such thing as someone who's bossy — there's just a boss."

Close-up of Taylor at a press event
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Some fans were unhappy with the change, citing Paramore's hit 2007 song "Misery Business" — which also contains moments of slut-shaming and misogyny:

if paramore can perform misery business in the year 2023 then taylor swift can keep the lyrics to better than revenge the same

— jodie (@jodieegrace) July 6, 2023

Twitter: @jodieegrace

However, Hayley Williams actually has not sung the line "Once a whore, you’re nothing more / I’m sorry, that will never change" at some live performances in recent years and did not perform the song for quite some time. “I was a 17-year-old kid when I wrote the lyrics in question,” she said in 2017, “and if I can somehow exemplify what it means to grow up, get information, and become any shade of ‘woke,’ then that’s A-OK with me.”

Close-up of Taylor and Hayley sitting together and smiling
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As such, many fans were thankful for the change:

better than revenge (taylor’s version) has the lyrics she wishes she would’ve written all along and i respect the hell out of that. she’s repeatedly told us this is her passion project, she’s doing this for herself - as she should! it’s HER project!! #SpeakNowTaylorsVersion

— swiftie wins 🩷 (@swifferwins) July 7, 2023

Twitter: @swifferwins

Regardless, the memes came swiftly:

better than revenge (Taylor’s version) pic.twitter.com/1XLnW5Mh4u

— Katie (@kmmurphhh) July 7, 2023

HBO / @kmmurphhh / Via Twitter: @kmmurphhh

I'm sorry but Spotify being in denial of the lyrics change in Better Than Revenge TV is so funny to me pic.twitter.com/HcGm47AwI2

— Clau 💔⛈️ ||sweetcheeks|| (@fools_daylight) July 7, 2023

Twitter: @fools_daylight

she’s better known for the things that she does on the pic.twitter.com/A0i19UK3Pi

— yas (@misamericana) July 6, 2023

AJ Pics / Alamy Stock Photo / Via Twitter: @misamericana

picture to burn (homophobic version)better than revenge (misogyny version)

— electric luíza (@fckstaylor) July 6, 2023

Twitter: @fckstaylor

As the final tweet alludes to, this isn't the first time Taylor has changed a previous song of hers. The original lyrics of her 2008 song "Picture to Burn" were, "So go and tell all your friends that I’m obsessive and crazy / That’s fine, I’ll tell mine / You’re gay, by the way.”

Close-up of Taylor onstage and holding a microphone and wearing a strapless flared gown
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However, if you listen to the song on Spotify now, the lyrics have been tweaked to, "That's fine, you won't mind if I say."

Close-up of Taylor onstage with a bejeweled guitar
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