Demi Lovato Says She Feels the ‘Most Confident’ During Sex: ‘It's Not That Way for Everybody’

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The "Confident" singer began dating musician Jutes in August 2022

<p>Jason Koerner/Getty</p> Demi Lovato attends the Boss Spring/Summer 2023 Miami Runway Show at One Herald Plaza on March 15, 2023

Demi Lovato is getting candid about what makes her feel like she’s at her best.

"I feel the most confident when I'm having sex," Lovato (who uses she/they pronouns) revealed during a two-part episode with the LadyGang podcast released Tuesday.

"Cause you're so present that you're not thinking about what is actually like… what clouds your judgment throughout the rest of the day, or at least that's how it is for me. It's not that way for everybody,” the “Sorry Not Sorry” artist, 31, shared in part two of the interview.

Mark Von Holden/Variety via Getty Demi Lovato
Mark Von Holden/Variety via Getty Demi Lovato

Lovato is currently dating indie rock musician Jutes. The couple met when he came onboard to work on their 2022 album HOLY FVCK.

The LADYBUG artist often references how their paths crossed on social media.

“Your heart has changed lives all over the planet… especially some dude from a farm in canada who wound up in your session over a year ago,” he said in an Aug. 20 Instagram birthday post showing his appreciation for the star.

“Oh my God.. BABY!!! This is the sweetest f---ing caption!! You make my life infinitely better and I don’t know what I would do without you,” she wrote in the comment section, adding that he was “the best boyfriend in the universe” and “the perfect human.”

"It's a really happy and healthy relationship. He's a super great guy,” a source told PEOPLE when it was confirmed that the pair was dating that August.

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In part one of the LadyGang podcast released last week, Lovato admitted she wasn’t always super confident in front of Jutes.

“The way that I met my boyfriend was actually in a session,” the performer told hosts Keltie Knight, Becca Tobin and Jac Vanek. “He is a musician himself, but he also co-writes on other people’s music. So he came into the session and I literally was like, ‘Who is this guy?’ ”

<p>Alex Goodlett/Getty</p> Jutes and Demi Lovato attend Operation Smile's 11th annual Celebrity Ski & Smile Challenge presented by Alphapals, Barefoot Dreams and the St. Regis Deer Valley on April 01, 2023

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Jutes and Demi Lovato attend Operation Smile's 11th annual Celebrity Ski & Smile Challenge presented by Alphapals, Barefoot Dreams and the St. Regis Deer Valley on April 01, 2023

“I texted my friends and was like, ‘Oh my God, the hottest guy just walked In. I am so nervous. I don’t know what to do with myself,' ” Lovato recalled.

The “Cool for the Summer” singer then explained that they and Jutes didn’t start dating for “a couple months” because “he was just so focused on the music.”

“So we were friends for a while and then told each other how we felt,” she added.

On Monday, Lovato sat down with PEOPLE for One Last Thing and admitted that performing in front of her boyfriend is one of the few times she still feels timid.

<p>Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty</p> Demi Lovato attends the 2023 MTV Video Music Awards at the Prudential Center on September 12, 2023 in Newark, New Jersey.

Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty

Demi Lovato attends the 2023 MTV Video Music Awards at the Prudential Center on September 12, 2023 in Newark, New Jersey.

The “La La Land” hitmaker confessed she gets nervous if "it’s like a televised show or performance, or my boyfriend is in the audience.”

"I get nervous if he’s there,” Lovato said.

Related: Demi Lovato Rocks the 2023 MTV VMAs Performing a Fiery Medley of Hits

However, the two apparently work very well together. HOLY FVCK earned their team a No. 1 spot on Billboard’s Top Rock & Alternative Albums chart.

“holy fvvvvvvck. love when ppl take risks and they pay off. f--- the rules f---- a box. demi been a rockstar 😤,” Jutes said, praising Lovato’s talent in an Instagram carousel in August 2022.

“So proud of u and so inspired by u love @ddlovato. big W for the whole squad on this one, grateful i got to be a part of something so dope 🖤,” he added.

Lovato’s latest album, REVAMPED, was released on Sept. 15.

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