Best Photos of Robert Downey Jr. Susan Downey’s Relationship

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When Robert Downey Jr. won the Best Supporting Actor Award at the 2024 Oscars, he made us swoon thanking one important person in his life: his wife, Susan Downey. “I’d like to thank my veterinarian, I mean my wife, Susan Downey,” the Oppenheimer star said in his speech. “She found me, a snarling rescue pet and you loved me back to life. That’s why I’m here.”

The pair, who have been together since meeting on the set of Gothika in 2003, have lived a love story for the ages. In addition to their two kids together, son Exton, 12, and daughter Avri, 9, the pair have also shared some unforgettable moments in awards shows, premieres, and major film festivals over the years. In every picture, while many of them include some actual PDA, the love and care they have for each other is evident.

So, in honor of the Iron Man star’s 59th birthday on April 4, we’ve decided to take a walk down memory lane and find all the best pictures of them over the years. Check out the undying love of Robert and Susan over the years below!

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Just Starting Off

Just Starting Off
Just Starting Off

After meeting on the set of Gothika in 2003, the Downeys started dating.

The two made their sweet red carpet debut later that year in October at the premiere of The Singing Detective. The two got engaged a month later, per Us Weekly.

I’ve Got Your Back

I’ve Got Your Back
I’ve Got Your Back

Since their very first public outings, the two proved they weren’t afraid of PDA.

So Passionate

So Passionate
So Passionate

Seriously, PDA was happening all around.

Prom Posing

Prom Posing
Prom Posing

During their red carpets together, Robert and Susan often pose in this cute prom pose.

All Smiles

All Smiles
All Smiles

These two just always look so happy posing together.

Squeezing Tight

Squeezing Tight
Squeezing Tight

Robert often makes a point of showing just how much he loves Susan, from sweet hugs to forehead kisses.

Stylish Duo

Stylish Duo
Stylish Duo

The pair looked so fashionable together at the 31st American Film Festival of Deauville back in 2005.

All About Her Hubby

All About Her Hubby
All About Her Hubby

At the 2005 Toronto Film Festival, Susan couldn’t get her eyes off her hubby.

Hands Intertwined

Hands Intertwined
Hands Intertwined

The prom pose happened again at the first annual UNICEF Snowflake Ball in 2005.

Cozy Together

Cozy Together
Cozy Together

Susan and Robert looked so cozy and comfortable in their coats and striped scarves at the 2006 Sundance Film Festival.

Party Time

Party Time
Party Time

The couple looked ready to celebrate together as they held hands at the 2007 Vanity Fair Oscar Party.

His Blond Era

His Blond Era
His Blond Era

Robert and Susan have always been there for each other, even when the actor rocked blond hair at The Brave One premiere.

Loving Iron Man

Loving Iron Man
Loving Iron Man

As one of the most memorable roles in his career, Robert had Susan right by his side in the release of the first Iron Man movie, Iron Man, in 2008.

Prom Pose 2.0

Prom Pose 2.0
Prom Pose 2.0

The pair gave even more prom pictures inspiration in this sweet embrace at another Iron Man premiere.

Mustache & All

Mustache & All
Mustache & All

Susan was still about her hubby after he grew out his hair and mustache at the 2008 premiere of Tropic Thunder.

Love Under the Umbrella

Love Under the Umbrella
Love Under the Umbrella

Robert and Susan gave us a major rom-com moment as they kissed under an umbrella at The Orange British Academy Film Awards 2009.

Power Couple

Power Couple
Power Couple

The couple looked so beautiful next to each other at the 81st Annual Academy Awards in 2009. Red is undoubtedly Susan’s color.

Prom Anyone?

Prom Anyone?
Prom Anyone?

Robert and Susan once again rocked their prom hug at the Orphan premiere in 2009.

XOXO

XOXO
XOXO

Robert planted quite a passionate kiss on his wife’s temples at the 2010 Sherlock Holmes premiere.

Kiss for the Winner

Kiss for the Winner
Kiss for the Winner

Robert and Susan celebrated with a kiss after he won the Best Actor in a Motion Picture Comedy or Drama Awards for Sherlock Holmes at the 67th Annual Golden Globe Awards.

Making Her Blush

Making Her Blush
Making Her Blush

Susan was blushing at the 82nd Annual Academy Awards when Robert kissed her hand on the red carpet.

Just Us Two

Just Us Two
Just Us Two

At the 2011 premiere of The Hangover Part II, these two oozed chemistry.

Growing Family

Growing Family
Growing Family

At the 2011 premiere of Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows, the soon-to-be-parents showed off Susan’s growing baby bump. They’re both glowing!

Iron Couple

Iron Couple
Iron Couple

The pair embodied Robert’s Marvel character at the Iron Man 3 premiere back in 2013.

Parents Again!

Parents Again!
Parents Again!

Robert couldn’t have looked prouder as he showed off Susan’s second baby bump at the 2014 premiere of The Judge.

So Radiant

So Radiant
So Radiant

Susan looked absolutely glowing at the 2014 BAFTA Los Angeles Jaguar Britannia Awards and Robert totally knew it.

Post-Baby Bliss

Post-Baby Bliss
Post-Baby Bliss

At the 2015 premiere of Avengers: Age Of Ultron, they looked so happy as they went back to their classic hug-from-behind prom pose.

Lean On Me

Lean On Me
Lean On Me

Susan looked so happy as she rested her head on Robert at the 2020 premiere of Dolittle.

Always Laughing

Always Laughing
Always Laughing

Robert made Susan laugh out loud as he danced and seemingly pretended to be a gorilla at another Dolittle premiere.

Three’s a Party

Three’s a Party
Three’s a Party

Prior to their kids together, Robert welcomed his oldest son, Indio Falconer Downey, with ex Deborah Falconer. At the 2022 AFI Fest Special Screening of Sr., Susan, Robert and Indio proved they’re one happy, blended family.

Proposal 2.0?

Proposal 2.0?
Proposal 2.0?

During his winning awards show season, Robert played around for the cameras and seemingly proposed to Susan at the 2024 Governors Awards.

Talk About Winners

Talk About Winners
Talk About Winners

Following his first-time win at the 2024 Oscars, Susan and Robert looked so in love at the 2024 Vanity Fair Oscar Party. Talk about a power couple!