Need help getting into the mood? Here’s a potentially untapped hack for you — Ashley Graham says praying with her husband makes her horny. Well, to be accurate, it makes them horny. A little ménage à trois with the Holy Spirit (or a ménage à cinq, if you’re talking about the Trinity) is all it takes to light Graham and Justin Ervin’s fire.
Maybe Madonna was onto something with her super-sexy “Like a Prayer” music video. Because, while on A Little Late with Lilly Singh on Wednesday, Graham revealed that prayer really does, ahem, take her there. “I like to do meditations and prayer and so does he on his own. But then, when we do it together, it just feels more powerful,” Graham told host Lilly Singh. And when she says powerful, she means the Holy Spirit moves them.
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“When we’re praying, it’s like, ‘Oh, s*&t. Oh, oh, do you feel that?’ The lights go down, the worship music goes up and we’re like, ‘Hello!'” she admits, continuing, “After we pray, ’cause priorities, we rip it off! It’s great. It’s a great bonding experience, for both, you know, the spiritual aspect and the physical aspect.” That revelation led Singh to deadpan, “I need to have a prayer night!”
Graham revealing that she and Irvin consider prayer part of their foreplay might (read: definitely does) come as a surprise, not to mention lead to major questions about what happens when these do go to church. Still, hearing Graham has a sex-filled marriage shouldn’t. When asked by Elle this past January what she considered the secret to a happy marriage, she responded, “Have sex all the time.”
Continuing, she elaborated, “Even if you don’t feel like it, just have sex.” She pointed out that she and Irvin tend to “get snippy” with each other if they aren’t getting frisky on the regular, but “if we are having sex, we’re all over each other. For us, it’s like, ‘Oh, let’s have sex.’ And then we’re just right back in a great mood.”
Can we get an amen?
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