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    Joe Amoia

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  • Lessons from a Valentine's Day Optimist - the Top 10 Reasons It's Good to Be Single on Feb. 14th

    If you're alone this Valentine's day there is no reason to feel down. Being single on this day can actually be a blessing in disguise.

  • The 2 Things a Guy MUST Have Before He Will Commit to a Woman

    Guys can't commit! They are only interested in sex! They can't be monogamous because it's in their DNA!

  • Dating Advice for Women – Dating Secrets You Were Never Taught

    I know. You're tired and frustrated with the dating game. Tired of getting your hopes up time and time again only to find out that you wind up back at the same place you started…alone. I get it, I really do. But it's not your fault. You see no one ever taught you how to date and how to CREATE a great relationship. That's right I said "create" a great relationship.

  • 5 Steps to Finding True Love in 2012

    It's almost 2012 and what better time is it for a new beginning? As we close the door on the past it is time to open a door to new & exciting possibilities. ...

  • Why the Christmas Season is like Dating

    Tis the season to be jolly…or is it? For some this is a wonderful time. The thought of dialing it down a notch and enjoying the holidays with friends and family is a welcome reprieve to the hustle and bustle of the rest of the year.

  • Are You a Smart Lady, but Dumb when it Comes to Love?

    Why intelligent women often struggle when it comes to men and dating.Have you ever looked back over your past relationships and said to yourself "What the hell was I thinking?"As you honestly reflect on your past, you will see that the red flags were waving all around you. There was a chance you may not have picked up on them because you were blinded by what you thought was love. But if you get real with yourself, you will see that the red flags were there, waving right in front of your eyes, almost from the very beginning. But you chose to ignore them.Right... ...

  • Do Nice Guys Turn You Off?

    The other day I was talking to a woman who proceeded to tell me how she is turned off by nice guys.

  • How to Let Your Guard Down Without Getting Hurt

    If the greatest guy in the world showed up at your door, would you let him in? In love, heartbreak is par for the course. Still, its impact can be severe. Sometimes it even compromises a person's ability to find love.For many women, the devastation of getting hurt goes back to childhood. If you did not get the love and support you desired from your family, it can deeply affect your ability to openly love and trust a man. Even if the greatest guy in the world showed up on your doorstep you wouldn't allow him into your heart because of the emotional wall you have built. ...

  • The Top Three Signs that a Man is Ready for a Relationship

    The most important aspect in creating a great relationship is being able to recognize guys who are ready, willing and able to commit to a woman.

  • How a DWTS Judge Found Love Online

    Imagine if you were a beautiful 43 year old woman who is a star on one of the most popular shows on television. You would think that you would have men crawling all over you wouldn't you? You would think that in all the glamour and glitz of Hollywood you would have actors, agents and all other entertainers vying for the chance to get to go out with you.

  • Would You Rather Be Right Or Be Happy?

    Would you rather be right or happy? In my 45 years on the planet I have realized that I have been blessed with many gifts and talents. Unfortunately, thick healthy hair wasn't one of them.

  • 3 Critical Steps For Finding Love Online

    Is online dating a viable option to find true love or is it simply an online version of the bar scene? Are the men on the internet really looking for relationships or are they simply looking for sex? The truth is it's both! Yes, there are men out there who are only interested in finding women who th

  • User Post: Should You Stay Or Should You Go?

    I recently had a conversation with one of the Smarter Dating members. She was in a relationship with a guy. He was a nice guy. He made her laugh, he was there for her. He had a good job, the sex was fantastic. But there were some big issues that were of concern to her.

  • Why You Can't Make a Guy Like You

    The other day I was doing a 1-on-1 consultation with a woman when she asked me a question.

  • User Post: A Lesson In Love From An NFL Quarterback

    When it comes to professional athletes there is a public perception of that many of these guys are spoiled brats who make a tremendous amount of money because they have a God-given ability to play a sport.

  • User Post: Stop The Insanity

    If you were alive in the 80's and you were out of diapers you probably remember an infomercial with Susan Powter. Back then Susan was the queen of the infomercial. There wouldn't be a day that went by where you wouldn't see her face screaming back at you while yelling "Stop the Insanity". Susan was

  • Why Friends With Benefits Can Work But Usually Doesn’t

    Would you run across a busy street without looking to see if there was any oncoming traffic? If you did, you might make it across but you must admit that it was just by luck. The more you continued to run across without looking the more you are increasing your chances of getting smashed by an oncomi