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  • Store Your Toy in a Box Called ToiBocks

    When we did our big roundup on sex toy storage possibilities, we didn't know about ToiBocks. Well Dawn Pulman, the president of the company, brought what she calls "the ultimate in discrete storage" to our attention and kindly agreed to send us a sample. The "jewelry box" showed up yesterday (they'v

  • Sex Dream Analysis: "Hot for Student"

    Very rarely are other people's dreams interesting...except when they're about sex. This week dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg helps a man who just can't stop dreaming about the woman who broke his heart.I am a 27-year-old grad student who has been happily married for two years. I pay for my studies by

  • Never Have the Same Sex Twice: Alison Tyler Dishes on Hot Monogamy

    Alison Tyler has edited more than forty-five books of erotica, but perhaps more impressive than that is the fact that she's been married for 15 years and says that her relationship is still "filled with extreme, kinky, varied, crazy, never-have-the-same-sex-twice sort of sex." For both feats, we rec

  • We ask you: What's your favorite sexual position?

    On top? On bottom? Em & Lo ask New Yorkers about their favorite sexual positions. And what exactly is he thinking while you're naked. MORE FROM EM & LO AND GLAMOUR: Ask Em & Lo: How Can I Take the Work Out of Being On Top? The Britney Spears Dating Game: Choose Her Next Boyfriend!

  • Feminism no longer necessary with the arrival of penile cleavage

    So, we were doing a little wholesome holiday shopping the other day at a typical American mall when we walked by this mannequin outside a Hollister store. heck-oh! Is that visible stem? Um, yeah. This couldn't be the work of pre-teen prankster mall rats, or else the pants would have been pulled down

  • Ask Em & Lo: How to Navigate the Crappy Holidays Alone

    Feeling down in the dumps because you're going to be single for Christmas and New Year's?You're not alone. Well, sure, you're alone in the sense that you don't have a cutie to go ice-skating with while clad in matching striped scarves from the Gap. But you're not alone alone. Despite the onslaught o

  • Sex Dream Analysis: "Exes Watch Me Do My Boss in My Hubby's Childhood Bed"

    Very rarely are other people's dreams interesting...except when they're about sex. This week dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg deciphers a creepy gang-bang of sorts:I just started my new job about four months ago and I work for a lawyer who is not too much older than me. I had this dream that we were h

  • A Holiday Gift Guide for Broke Perverts

    If you read ourguide to sex-toy gift-giving etiquette last week, then you know it's best to go for nicely designed, higher-end prod. Of course, in this economy, who can afford a $175 Swarovski-crystal-encrusted vibrator with a pink feather tail on a silver stand? But that doesn't mean you can't find

  • 8 reasons why he's a lover, not a breeder

    We have an article in December's Glamour magazine called "Guys' Weird New Habits: Why? Why?" One new habit we looked into were vasectomies for the under-30 -- it seems a small but growing number of men are doing it. Not only did we speak with urologists who perform them (like Dr. Doug Stein) but als

  • We ask you: Do you watch porn?

    Don't be shy...Tell us: Do you watch porn? If so, check out thisguide to pornography from Babeland! MORE FROM DAILY BEDPOST ANDGLAMOUR: Advice from our guy friends: To Threeway or Not to Threeway? Get to your healthiest weight by Winter! Sign-up now for Body by Glamour-lose inc

  • LOVE HOROSCOPE: Seeing stars for the week of December 8th

    aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th)Read the fine print before you sign the commitment contract.taurus (Apr. 21st-May 20th)Your insightful outlook will attract all sorts of interesting people. Suckers!

  • How to give a sex-related gift

    Who wouldn't want an orgasm as a present? Well, you'd be surprised. Some people's greed is not properly directed. In order to avoid offending their delicate sensibilities, follow these ten rules of gift-giving etiquette this holiday season:1. If the recipient is a sex-toy virgin, go with a kit since

  • Man-Handled: Who should pay on a first date?

    Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the question--and, in a Man-Handled first, they all agree on the answer--Who should pay on a first date? (Is there any man out there who disagrees with them?!)Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): The guy should pay. I mean, stri

  • Sex Dream Analysis: "I can't get over my ex-girlfriend"

    Very rarely are other people's dreams interesting...except when they're about sex. This week dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg helps a man who just can't stop dreaming about the woman who broke his heart.I have this dream normally twice a week. It involves my ex-girlfriend, whom I still love, and me. W

  • We ask you: Household sex toys

    Have you ever gotten creative with your sex toys and used a household object for an activity not intended? Speaking of sex toys, try these 10 tips for storing them safely. MORE FROM EM & LO AND GLAMOUR: Ask Em & Lo: How Can I Take the Work Out of Being On Top? The Britney Spear Dating

  • Burlesque 101: Q & A with an expert

    Saucy Brit Emily Dubberley is a Daily Bedpost fave (who can drink both of us under the table). Her latest book, Ultimate Burlesque, is steamy, instructional, and it's raising money for breast cancer. Plus, this prolific sex writer once performed a burlesque in honor of her Rabbit vibrator. Don't you

  • LOVE HOROSCOPE: Seeing stars for the week of December 1st

    aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th)"Remember, you can't force anyone to love you," say the stars. Well, the stars can take their self-righteous condescension and go to heck. How can they not expect you to push back when the one you love pushes you to the edge? It's how you push that makes the difference: la

  • Ask Em & Lo: How to take the work out of being on top?

    Dear Em & Lo,I need a little advice. My boyfriend was in an accident and now he is paralyzed. We can still have sex with the help of erectile shots, which make his penis hard. The problem is, I have to be on top and do all the work. Is there anything out there that might help? Please help! My legs a

  • Advice from our guy friends: Is there such a thing as an ugly vagina?

    Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the question, Is there such a thing as an ugly vagina? based, in part, on recent advice we gave and the flurry of comments that followed:Straight Married Guy (Matt):It's not something I've ever been all that concerned about personally, but

  • How to seduce a straight guy!

    Let's face it: seducing guys ain't that hard. A little cleavage and some footsie is pretty much all it takes. The challenge is making your moves really memorable. What follows are seven classic approaches to seduction that you can make your own -- and have fun doing it.1) The Detective: It's the qui