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  • My Best Friend

    So today I got a Mothers Day email from my best friend. He said he loves me Very,Very much and I will always be his heart. This is not news to me, as I feel the same way. He is and always will be the love of my life,the father of the child I have and the father of the 2 children of my heart. Unfortu

  • Letting go.........

    So lately I have worked on, letting go. Not just in the emotional aspect, but with physical objects. Whether it be a table, coffee mug, pair of jeans or just any inanimate object. Something that correlates to a memory, whether it be a good memory or a bad memory.In doing this I have found that the m

  • $1300 for make-up,u got to be joking ! I can tell u about make-up for a $1.00 ? Yep it's true...........

    I was talking to a new friend the other day and mentioned this place where I get SUPER cheap make-up, that is actually pretty decent. I was surprised she hadnt heard of the website, which made me think there might be alot more people out there that dont know about it.Its called E.L.F make-up, which

  • Fur Kids, or pets as some call them

    I found out that my dog A) may have cancer B) has an enlarged heartAnd I am devastated to say the least...........We are ruling things out one by one on the heart issue, no ringworm, no heart murmur or arrythmia. Which is all good news,dont get me wrong. But I am still totally stressed by this, I ca

  • Making sense of something that seems to make no sense at all, otherwise known as friendships.

    I have a friend, he is probably one of the greatest guys I have ever known. But half the time I cant tell if he even likes me, sometimes I almost wonder if he hates being around me. And yet we have been friends for 15 years ! I have gone as his "date" to stuff where he didnt wanna go alone. If I nee

  • Reality shows, where is the realism ?

    For me it started with watching Survivor,then Surreal Life,Celebrity Apprentice & a few others. Now me personally, I was never a watcher of the Bachelor or other dating shows,just not my deal. lolBut now its gone on to so many reality shows you cant keep track !From "Im a celebrity get me out of her

  • It takes a childs observation to point out the obvious

    So due to being laid off from my job, we moved in with a friend. A person I have known for 14 years and think of as family. I really thought I knew this person well, he is like a brother to me. But when my son said in regards to something my friend did, that he reminded him of his father. I about fe

  • Stress, and more stress

    So I am at the doctor's office about anxiety attacks. And he says to me "so what do you think has been causing you to be so stressed at this time",and I wanna just say "ARE YOU CRAZY " ?This is the man who pretty much knows the most about my life and he ask's me "what do you think is causing you str

  • President for ALL the people

    Why is it black people want to claim Barack Obama as "their" president ? He isnt black,he is biracial. A fact that most black people try to ignore. They claim Hallie Berry,Alicia Keyes,Tiger Woods ect......... If a biracial person is someone of accomplishment or is note worthy they want to claim

  • Friends & Family

    Well I realized that you cant always be friends with your family. You may love your family,but you may not even like them. I used to like my sister,then I moved to the town she lived in. Its true what they say "absence makes the heart grow fonder", or at least fond !! By living in another state I re

  • Whats ur type ?

    Okay,so Im back on this whole dating issue. Sometimes I feel like part of the problem was I got caught up in a type of guy. I admit it,I am slightly shallow ! lol So in trying to be more openminded I started talking to a guy who is not generally my "type". And all the things that people try to attri

  • Are you a Judge ??

    Isnt it funny (in a not so funny kinda way) when you find you are so wrong about a first impression ? The person at work/school/church who you thought was a certain "type" of person, isnt ....... Funny in a ironic,not so good, kinda arent you a judgemental b*#*h kinda way ?

  • Single mom's & dating

    Okay maybe its just me,but this has been the hardest thing lately. I have only had a very minimal dating life for the last 3 years. I dated one guy for about 6 months over a year ago,and that was it ! In 3 years !!! I find that no one wants to just date. And by that I mean,go on dates that eventuall

  • Single Mom

    So some people who leave comments ask questions,totally cool. I'm gonna try and answer the recent ones in this post,but at my age the memory is going so ...........lolOne question was how long have I been single,my sons father & I split when my son was 2 yrs old ( 9 years ago). Of course like alot o

  • Single moms

    Wow ! Yes we are definatly not alone out there in this world of dead beat dads & losers !! Isnt it weird how none of us really thought we would end up with this drama ? Whether you were married or just dating before you got to this point,none of us thought that we would be where we are. Whether it i

  • Life as a single parent

    So right now I'm dealing with 3 major things :