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  • What Are Your Sexual Scripts?

    What are your primary sexual scripts? Most of us have a few scripts that guide the majority of our sexuality. It may be a role or archetype that you try to fit into. It may be a peak sexual experience from the past that you are trying to recreate. Our sexual scripts are informed by and in relationsh

  • Reciprocity in the Bedroom

    Is there an imaginary scoreboard above your bed? Many couples act as if they need to stay "even" when it comes to giving and receiving pleasure. Yet, reciprocity is not a one-for-one exchange. It is important to make sure both of your needs and desires are being acknowledged, but you may also find t

  • 7 Sex Tips from Sex And The City 2 : Make It Sparkle!

    After last night's midnight showing of Sex and The City 2, it is clear that you probably won't go see SATC for the sex advice. Go for the reunion with Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte. Go for the fashion and extravagance. Just seeing Liza Minnelli perform "Single Ladies" is well worth the pri

  • Beyond Masturbation: The Challenge of Self-Love

    May is Masturbation Month - so all month long we've been hearing about the latest vibrators, lubes and lotions to get us in the mood for self-stimulation. A new vibrator can be a great thing to experiment with new sensations or add a new flavor to your masturbation routines. But ultimately, masturba

  • Giving and Receiving Pleasure: What is your balance?

    When do you experience more joy - when you give a gift to a loved one, or when you receive a present? Tough question, right? For most of us, both giving and receiving gifts can be delightful. Giving and receiving gifts is especially wonderful when the present is "just right" - when you give a gift a

  • What Does YOUR Orgasm Sound Like?

    How much noise do you make during sex? The bed squeaking doesn't count - how much noise do you make?Many of us learned our arousal patterns while masturbating as a youth - and a lot of us had to be absolutely quiet for fear of discovery. This arousal pattern of silent enjoyment can stick with people

  • Exercises for Pelvic Strength - and Stronger Orgasms!

    Like other muscles, the muscles of the pelvic floor can be toned and trained. The pelvic muscles can be strengthened over time, and stronger muscles are capable of stronger contractions, so you can experience stronger orgasms. A regular practice of pelvic clenches will create a more powerful sensati

  • Full Body Orgasms: Fact or Fiction?

    When you get aroused, where do you feel it? What parts of your body light up with sensation and energy when you climax? For most people, the genitals are the focus of both arousal and orgasm. We feel sensation where we are being stimulated and where we are paying attention. Most of us choose to focu