k
    k

    k

  • Talking in Your Sleep

    I realize that when we are sleeping we have no control over what we say, but when our partners talk in their sleep should we be worried about what they are saying?I have recently moved in with a man. We have been together for just over 7 months and he has only been divorced for 2 years (me 7+). He finally told his family that we had moved in together and from what he said they were happy for him. Tonight while sleeping he said, " You won't like her". When I asked, "What?" His response was "She has some personal demons". ...

  • Advice????

    ASo, after 25 years, a failed marriage and two kids, I heard from a guy that I dated in high school....The phone conversations have been great and the plan is to get together this weekend... The catch is he lives two hours away so I told him he could stay here.

  • on-line dating profiles gone wrong

    I have to share this with all of you out there both men and women who are participating in on-line dating...We have all gotten the emails that the subject is "Hi" and that's all the email says... It makes it hard to respond to, but occasionally we can look at their profile and find a common interest

  • Interducing the guy to the friends tonight... yikes

    My friends have all heard the stories, good and bad, about this guy... I have one girlfriend that has never met him and hates him already for some of the "bad things" about him. (none are terribly bad)My other two friends that I have known for years are meeting someone I am dating for the first time

  • Should I give him one more shot?

    About three years ago I met a great guy. We dated for awhile and then he dumped me to get together with an old girlfriend... We have stayed in contact and friends over the years.About two weeks ago he asked me out again. (he's been single for a few months now) We've gone out three times in the past

  • What is your idea of Romance?

    With Valentines Day quickly approaching, I've been thinking about what romance means to people.I maybe slightly cynical due to my past relationship with my ex-husband, but I don't need hearts and flowers on one day of the year. I would be happy if the guy remembered to put the toilet seat down and l

  • When do you have to commit to dating one person????

    After posting on a "status" on Facebook that my date for the night had canceled because he was sick I received an email from a guy that I have had a few dates with. (it's only been a month since the first date) The email was "ohhhhhh, I didn't know you were dating anyone else".I have been very upfro

  • How long is too long between contact?

    I have a had a few dates with the same guy. Things seem to be going well we have fun together and laugh a lot, but I don't hear from him for sometimes up to two weeks.I am not disillusioned enough to think that he isn't seeing other people. (I still am), but if he was truly interested wouldn't he ca

  • Am I being overly protective of me and my own?

    The more I date the more I realize, I am very protective of me and my space.I have an online dating profile with a neighboring town (within 7 miles of me) as my hometown listed. When dating I don't EVER mention my boys names or what they do, nor do I give anyone my last name.Is this wrong? Am I bein

  • Am I leading him om?

    I have recently been spending a lot of time with a male friend of mine... We go to movies, out to dinner, walks around town, talk on the phone, and spend weekends together. We had discussed what our "relationship" is over a year ago and we both agreed that friends was what would work best for us. Bu

  • What is a relationship????

    What defines a relationship??? Some to me seem like no brainers and easy, but not to all Marriage- is a relationship. (although to some it doesn't seem to matter) Living together- to me this would be a relationship, but as my ex explains... for him it makes it easier to pay the bills. He do

  • Fear of rejection

    Last weekend I made what I think maybe be a terrible mistake. Someone that I have known for years asked me what I thought our relationship was… In a moment of blazing stupidity and fear I said "friends with benefits". I knew that it was the "safe" answer. It wasn't lying, but it wasn't completely

  • What's up with not asking for a phone number???

    Okay, I'll take advice from anyone on this, but guys I would love to hear your opinion. I live in a very small town. We have one local hang-out. It is a decent restaurant/bar. It's the place we all go after watching the football game (parents of the kids) or to listen to the live entertainment.

  • Does being a self confident woman intimidate men?

    As far as I can tell this is one of those double edge swords. Men say they want a woman who is confident, but in reality they want someone that needs them. I have no problem attracting men. I'm self confident (but not to a point of conceited ), I'm (in my eyes anyway) decent looking, I'm smart,

  • Help- My friend with benifits told me he loved me

    Here is my problem… Last weekend I was out with my "friend with benefits". We've known each other for two years now. We have shared many interesting conversations and lots of great sex. (the best I've ever had!!!) It always ends with him asking me to spend the night and my answer always being no.

  • I need advice: Who should do the chasing?

    At about the age of 12 I can remember my mother telling me that "young ladies do NOT call gentlemen. If they are interested in you they will call you".