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  • Happily Married for the Most Part

    I am a 25 year old African-American male married to a beautiful black woman. For the most part things are great as long as I dont confront her. Yesterday when we were out i noticed that her hair looked like she didnt spend anytime combing it so i commented. I know she is sensitive about it so i tried to hint that we should look at hair magazines. When that didnt work i told her straight up that she should spend a little more time preparing her hair before we go out. She has a mini-fro and thinks all she has to do is wash it then walk out of the house. ...

  • Engaged BUT I NEED A FEMALE PEN PAL

    3I am engaged to be married this year, and I need a female that doesnt know me or my fiance to vent to from time to time. My fiance is not that good at letting me share my feelings, so i would like to have a female pen pal to vent to/ get some advice from. I believe in not letting family and friends

  • I am engaged to the girl of my dreams, but I'm scared I will mess things up

    One would think that if you find the person of your dreams everything would be ok, but that has not been the case for me. My fiance is everything and more I would want in a wife (i will spare the details). The problem is that because im so deep in love with her i feel like there is no way in hell he

  • SHOULD I PURSUE A GIRLFRIEND VIA THE INTERNET.

    In the 21st century most female/ male interaction occurs via facebook and twitter (least for me). Now i am wondering should i try to find a girlfriend off the interntet.There is a stigma that people who have to take to the net to get a girl are eithr ugly or something is really wrong with them so i

  • My ex hacked my Facebook account and saw old messages and now we're done

    Two days ago my girlfriend hacked my facebook account and saw messages i sent to a girl i used to mess with. The messages were sent at least a month ago during the time i saw my ex had wrote a note talking bout messing with some dude. Now i didnt even know how easy it was for her to hack my account

  • Documentary Black IN America

    I watched this documentary on CNN and i think it is a must see for every black person in America. Alot of the issues that are being brought to the light are things that we are already aware of, but i have learn and heard things that I, being a college eduacated brother, did not know about. I would l

  • I NEED ADVICE: I think my girlfriend is about to cheat on me

    I have been dating my current girlfriend for 1 year and 8 months now. From day one we have been arguing, but have always thought that once we get all of the disagreements out the way then we will be better off. Recently i graduated and we both moved together to Northern Virginia. I am making most of

  • Just writing

    I am sitting at work with more than enough to do, but not enough to do. There is never a such thing as not having something to do because there are too many laws and regulations to read and learn for that, but once again my supervisor is gone so i dont have any assignments. I am starting to think th