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  • Who Believes in Soulmates Anymore, Anyway?

    In a world of technological advance where we have as much access to people across the world as we do across the coffee shop, where romantic options are presented to us online as often as they are in person, it makes me wonder how someone could possibly still believe that there is one person made for every one person. The ever-elusive soulmate.Ok, so maybe people can have multiple soulmates. Maybe there is more than one person out there made for each person. But still, the notion that someone is "made" for someone else is a little lost on me. ...

  • Gender Differences in Getting Sexually Adventurous

    In our survey on sexual adventurousness of 3100 people (1731 men and 1369 women), we found that women engaged in significantly more sexually adventurous behaviors than men. I thought this was a really interesting finding considering how much women are constructed to be the member of a heterosexual couple with lower sexual desire, and constructed to be less sexual than their male counterparts. ...

  • Some Survey-Based Suggestions to Boosting Satisfaction in Your Relationship

    One of the most sought after outcomes in romantic relationships is satisfaction. Sexual satisfaction, relationship satisfaction, overall satisfaction...it is all desired. So how do we boost our chances of being sexually and relationally satisfied?

  • Why You Shouldn't Focus on Simultaneous Orgasm

    By focusing on making sure you come together, you really lose part of the fun of sex. Sex is always better when you are focusing on each other, not the outcome of the event.

  • When Does Sexual and Relationship Boredom Begin?

    I've been looking again at the data we collected from 1418 men and 1923 women on how relationship boredom interferes with relationships both sexually and non-sexually. We found a lot of interesting information, and you can check out the full report here.The purpose of collecting that data was to further understand relationship boredom within the context of committed relationships. We found that 25% of the sample felt bored in their relationship, with an additional 25% on the brink of boredom. ...

  • Date Night: Keeping the Spark Alive

    In the spirit of the holiday season, I found myself watching Four Christmases, a holiday movie that features a young couple who focus on doing activities together, going on regular dates, and who avoid the holidays with family like the plague by instead getting away from it all on an exotic vacation.At Good in Bed, our last survey was about how the holidays impact sex and relationships. ...

  • Boredom: the #1 Relationship Threat

    Does your relationship lack a certain luster it once had? Do you find yourself yearning for the butterflies that accompanied the early days, when you were still getting to know one another on an intimate level? Well, if you do, you aren't alone.In a recent Good in Bed Research survey of 3,341 people

  • 6 Reasons Why You Should Take A Second Look At The Kama Sutra Manual

    Not enjoying sex as much as you feel you should? It could be that you haven't yet discovered the best position (or positions) for providing the both of you with maximum pleasure. While the missionary position is nice, there is a world of alternative bodily arrangements out there. For some of the bes

  • How Does Boredom Impact Your Relationship?

    Do you remember the days when you could look across a room at your partner, exchange a flirtatious stare, and be so excited for the rest of your night just to get home with them? Or do you remember when you used to laugh hysterically at your partner's terrible jokes?What happened to those days? Do y

  • Sex Positions for Maximum Pleasure

    Trying out different positions during sex is an effortless part of sex for some couples - it happens naturally and is simply intertwined with their sexual experience. For others, they may get caught in a routine of one or two positions that have been successful or comfortable in the past. At Good in

  • Decoding Female Sexual Pleasure

    Is your partner intimidated by the prospect of pleasing you? It's no wonder: There are a ton of messages out there that tell us all about how complicated women are. There are pictures that indicate the physical complexity of women and the simplicity of men. Because of this, pleasing a woman in bed c

  • A Crash Course In Racking Up Multiple Orgasms

    by Ian Kerner, Good in BedI may have nearly failed out of high school algebra, but when it comes to sexual mathematics (at least multiplying female orgasms), being a sex therapist puts me at the head of the class. Today's lesson comes from the Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms.Lesson #1: Men need

  • Is it Time To Tone Up Your Sex Life Like You Do Your Body

    By Ian Kerner, Good in BedThink fast: when was the last time you had sex? This week? Last week? Last month? Uhhhm, not so sure? If you've been spending more time Facebooking with friends than face-timing with your partner, keep reading: that little rut you're in could be on the verge of becoming a s

  • Is It Time To Pay Attention To His/Her New Facebook Friends?

    By Ian Kerner, GoodinBed.comIs your marriage already taking a hit from Facebook? If so, join me at Good in Bed, where we're discussing the downside of social networking.

We all know how the story goes: Boy meets girl. Boy loses girl-blah, blah, blah. Save that version for Hollywood. How about t

  • The REAL Reason He Turns Down Sex

    Is it a low libido or severe lying problem? Three tips couples can use to be honest with each other about lack of sex.Sure, many guys are genuinely afflicted with low libidos, but unfortunately just as many guys are dealing with an even more troubling problem: They're liars. It's not that they have

  • Internet Infidelity: Is it time to Snoop?

    "To snoop or not to snoop" -- that is the question that Hamlet would be asking if were alive today, and it's also the question we're exploring this week at Good in Bed.

  • Is "choreplay" the new foreplay?

    Ever seen a book called Porn for Women? The cover sports a smiling man performing an act that doubtless makes many women sigh with pleasure: He's vacuuming the living room. Inside the pages, another man does laundry, promising to go grocery shopping with the kids "so you can relax." It's definitely