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  • Forbidden Fruit

    There are a ton of posts and articles in this forum about cheating and cheaters…..why do people cheat? Statistics about it…..signs to look out for……it's all over the place.

  • Do women view sex as a way to “hook” a guy into a relationship?

    Let me "set the table" - I was out with three of "my boys" last night - just a couple of beers and some dinner. Two of them are married and the other two (myself included) are single. Now the other single guy and I are both divorced (neither of us have kids, and I've been divorced for about six year

  • Accidental voyeur

    Last night was a very nice night…a bit warm….a little breeze…quiet - at least it was at that moment. I had to go over some material for a presentation today, so I settled onto the couch with my dogs and opened the window in my living room. I know the material front and back, but I wanted to ju

  • Male menopause - fact or fiction?

    Apparently, I'm a one man focus group for three of my female friends/colleagues. I periodically get a meeting request for lunch with the subject line reading "Is the Doctor in?". They get a guys perspective on things, and I get lunch on them…not a bad deal.

  • What was I thinking?

    Opportunities lost….whether it be for Mister/Miss Right…or Mister/Miss Right Now…we all have those times in our lives when we have 20/20 hindsight and wonder, "why didn't I…..". I've got two examples:

  • No greater love

    I just ran across the article/video of the fallen Navy SEAL's funeral where his dog lies down next to the casket. The dog simply lies down and sighs mightily as if waiting for his owner to wake up and scratch his head. Simply heartbreaking.....makes you want to reach out and let this poor creature k

  • Don't EVER call me that!

    I've overcome the little league kid calling me "Sir" when I asked if his team won the game....only damage were the couple of gray hairs that instantly sprouted on top of my head. I can deal with this stuff.

  • A user asks: What have you done to catch his/her eye?

    In conversation with friends over the weekend, someone asked me point blank - "Did I adopt my two dogs to attract women?"

  • Ladies - Are you 100% sure you know what your guy wants in bed?

    This came up in conversaton with some friends....most of the guys can tell you EXACTLY what their girl wants in bed - how slow...how fast....what we need to do to get you going....etc. Because we've either asked the question or you tell us. It was interesting to hear how many of the ladies didn't.

  • Dating landmines - talking about "the past"

    I got into a discussion with a female friend about the phrase "dating" versus "seeing someone". My take is there is a difference - if you''ve "dated" someone, you've had sex with them. If you were "seeing someone" then you haven't. She thought I was crazy.

  • Man Card - Gold Version

    Earlier today (scroll down) blogger Latina Libra posted some of the initial qualifications for the "Standard" Man Card which was outstanding. But as she posts in "Girl or Grown Women" this card might only get you into the "Girls Club". Grown Women really require the Gold Version of this Card…..and

  • What do you want Santa to bring you?

    Dear Santa,