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  • How to Have the Relationship of Your Own Dreams . . . and Not Others’ Dreams for You!

    Beth lay in the chaise lounge on her veranda hoping for a moment to herself. That thought alone caused the tears to stream down her face, again. Three years married and what had happened, she thought. She let her mind drift back to her dreams of being married to Carl: having their own home, decorating it the way they had enthusiastically discussed, camping and kayaking together on weekends, taking a couple's cooking course, sleeping late on Saturdays, and lazily making love on their private veranda . . ..

  • Surprise Honey: I Want a Divorce! Four Treasure Tips to Divorce- Proof Your Marriage

    There are surprises you can spring on your spouse, but "Honey I want a divorce" is not the kind of surprise anyone wants. Marie and Hunter had been married for 12 years. They had two boys, ages 7 and 10, who seemed relatively comfortable with their lives. They had good friends, and families who were close. Their marriage didn't seem too different from those of their friends. Marie tended to the children and had a part time job.

  • Seven Secrets to Make True Romance Last

    The so-called experts say that romantic passion cannot last-that it's just based on hormones in the brain that deplete as the "honeymoon" period, the excitement of a new love, fades away.

  • Why Do New Year’s Resolutions Typically Fail?

    Making New Year's resolutions is an old tradition. Next year we are going to stop smoking, lose weight, save money, exercise more, drink less and be nicer to our family members. Overwhelmingly such resolutions lead nowhere-until they are made again the next year with the same lack of results.

  • The Secret to Avoiding the “I-Dread-the-Holidays” Syndrome

    "I dread the holidays!" Maria was surprised to hear herself admit this openly as she sat in the lunchroom with her co-workers. Christmas music was playing softly throughout their office. "I have to send out holiday cards. The list has mushroomed with people I hardly know. That will take a chunk out of my life!

  • The Secret About Selfishness Happy Couples Know

    "My partner means the world to me. I would do anything for him. I want nothing