Bobbi Palmer
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How to Show Yourself Some Love...So He Can Too
It's time for you to hear something that I hope you're willing to admit: the only thing your super-singleness or past failed relationships have in common is YOU.
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Have Fun Flirting: 4 Ways to Flirt with Class
No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the "I think you're hot and would be interested in going out with you" way is to flirt.When I suggest that to the over-40 single women in my dating workshops and coaching programs, I can see them cringe. Most of these otherwise outgoing women have no idea how to flirt with men, nor do they want to. They consider it quite childish, bordering on classless.I have news for you: Here is what you get when you don't flirt with nice men: a nice conversation. That's it. ...
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How to Answer Those Personal Questions You Don’t Want to Answer [Video]
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How to Shake Up Your Love Life This Weekend [Video]
o you feel like you’re in a bit of a rut? Sometimes, especially when we’re older and haven’t dated for a while, we can start feeling bored, boring or invisible when it comes to men.
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What is Your Online Dating IQ?
10 questions to help you learn things about how to meet the RIGHT MEN online, the RIGHT way.
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How to Tell If He is Second-Date Worthy
Bobbi Palmer of Date Like a Grownup shares why women dating over 40 shouldn't worry about butterflies with more important things at stake on first dates.
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Is "Should-ing" on Yourself Blocking Your View of a Beautiful Future?
Bobbi Palmer of Date Like a Grownup shares how when a woman dating over 40 overthinks her situation, she might overlook the perfect partner.
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Are You Ready to Teach and Tame Her? (FemiTypes - the Epilogue)
Bobbi Palmer of Date Like a Grownup™ shares how to overcome your FemiType if you're a woman dating over 40.
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Are You Attracting Cads and Pingers?
Why women dating over 40 who rely on their sexuality to attract a mate short change themselves in the long run.
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Do All Men Make You Mad? the Bitter Woman
Bobbi Palmer of Date Like a Grownup™ explains how women who are dating over 40 can recognize the Bitter Woman FemiType and avoid becoming it.
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Are You Waiting to Be Wowed?
Bobbi Palmer of Date Like a Grownup™ explains how a "wow me" woman dating over 40 lets her desire for instant chemistry overshadow real relationship potential.
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Your Fear of Rejection is Getting You Rejected
We all know that dating over 40 can be a bit of a jungle with challenges, surprises and pitfalls. I'm sure you've encountered your share of Pingers, Needy-men and Players as you meet single men. I get it, and you belong to a large, loving sisterhood. But it's not only us gals who have dating disasters. Men have their fair share of icky, confusing, ego-crushing experiences too.
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Are You Still 18 when it Comes to Dating and Relationships?
Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men who are full of respect, adoration and commitment.
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Are You a Princess?
Bobbi Palmer of Date Like a Grownup™ details the Princess, one of the six FemiTypes who'll struggle to find love when dating over 40 as a woman.
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What Dating is like for Men (Oh…ya Think You Know?)
Last week was Men's Health week; and as another nod to the guys, I thought I'd help them by helping you better understand them. (Did you follow that?) In particular, I want to help you better understand the experience men have when they're trying to "date like a grownup."
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New Ideas for Things to Do This Weekend
When I was single I had a love/hate relationship with weekends. I loved having the extra time off work; I hated that I didn't have a man to spend the time with. The truth is, though, that I didn't need a man to have fun or accomplish something meaningful. In many cases, I just needed ME!I thought I would help you out by giving you a bunch of ideas of things to do this weekend. I have all kinds of thoughts about how to make this, or any other weekend, enjoyable-with or without a man or a friend. ...
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Avoid Dating Burnout by Thinking More like a Man
This week I spoke with my client, "Sue," who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out a profile she really liked and emailed him. He seemed interested, attentive and pretty fabulous on paper. The next thing you know…she has a date!When they met in real life, he complimented her generously, told her he felt so lucky to have met her, and talked about doing lots of things together. At the end of the date, they both agreed they wanted to see each other again. She felt a major connection. ...
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Don't Sleep Through Your Sex Life
Have you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you're in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy "being on hiatus." And the hiatuses were often pretty long. (Sorry…TMI?)The truth is that extended periods of celibacy are somewhat common for single women over 40. Unlike our earlier years of joyful experimentation and bed-hopping, most of us aren't sleeping with any guy that comes along. (Yes…pun intended. ...