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    confessions of a lipstick

    confessions of a lipstick

  • Best Thing I Will Have

    The expectations that i never had should have been there with the disappointments that i didn't forecast. Life is pretty interesting that way, we don't have a crystal ball to forecast how something will develop nor how it will end. It's a risk that we take when we meet someone and let them in our circle. We open ourselves with the hopes that we will be simply understood. And we take the time to try to understand who they are and accept them for who they are. After ups and downs and a dead end later. ...

  • "The Agenda"

    Like an agenda i fit right in as a part of a plan even though i didn't schedule that moment this person was meant to cross my path for some reason or some impact on my spirit,soul,heart. Whether their comes a moment or a breaking point we reach that fuels us to self reflect on how we feel.... is this fullfilling to our spirit ? am I where i want to be? or am i simply at the convenience of someone's Agenda? Simply because i make them feel great about themselves. ...

  • Weirdos...Freaks...Geeks & the Nerds the Epic Success

    Whether it was High School, our Family members,Society. That gave us those labels because we didn't fit into their idea of how we should be. I will never understand people however what i do see is that behind every "weirdo is a beautiful talent followed by an amazing story. Inside every freak is creativity i guess that's why we stand out. To be a geek is pure intelligence and a bright future. Eventually Nerds end up having the last laugh with inventing all the coolest gadgets and discoveries. ...

  • The Bright Penny in the Change"

    Today is a gift and well i will ive in the present****I have been there in the past, in depression, unemployed, single,outcasted,insecure]however all that had a way to change into being loved,Happy,confident,working,in the moment, social bug,how?Babysteps:1. Focus on a small goal2.Surround yourself by great individuals3.Talk to family, friends, make new friends, Read great articles,fitness,4. listent to feel good music5. Let in the sun , light candles6. Apply to temp agencies, network with friends ask around7. ...

  • Let the Boys be Boys"

    Want a Happier guy in your life ? here are some things that matter to them that well you mightwant to change however take in consideration that by giving them this they willlove you that much more!1.Give them their SPACE" : guys don't like clingy, needy, smotheringthey want to be able to do their ho

  • A new chapter with a better beginning

    You can't change the past however you can create a brighter future...

  • A new pair of stilettos

    A fresh start is like a new pair of stilettos : no history, no past, they won't make you fall, they will keep you grounded.Why hold on to someone that is living in the past ?in relationships you need the main foundation: Friendship, trust, communication, faith, confidenceWith a fresh start with a ne

  • How to stay grounded

    It feels sometimes like the world is cold and things are un fair however don't forget the beautiful things, people, reasons and experiences to smile most of all true love you can find within yourself"

  • misery loves company but you don't have to be it

    They're moments that we adapt to certain friendships, relationshipsbecause out of comfort or fear of being alonebut even when having certain people in your life they can bring outthe worst in youlike a bad mojobecause if you notice their actions are screaming louder than their wordsit's freakin sad

  • Confessions of commitment phobia

    I have no room for another disappointment or failed relationshipI find that i feel more secure in the feelings of seduction, lust , passionwhen i sense that it's getting serious my mind freaks outand i start to over analyze the persongetting scared of the what if'sor deceptionI find reasons or pick

  • When you know it's time to hit the road

    Do you find yourself unhappy in your relationship and are contemplatingshould i stay or should i go?Ask yourself these things:1. Are you happy together? if not have you both made an attempt to work things out more than 3 times?2. What are you fighting for? Love conquers all so why not love yourself

  • Is Mr. right even out there or is it Mr. right now?

    After many disappointments in the dating scene I ask does Mr. Right even exist or is their only Mr. Right now?I remember the 2 worst things that my parents ever told me1. That a man will promise the stars and the moon in the beginning then show his true colors2. That no man would want to be with me

  • for the love of money

    It's quite amazing the impact that money has on peoplewhether it's an obsession or love for moneyI thank the stars up above that i was raised with learning the value of food, clothing, shelterI grew up with 3 siblings and both parents my father being the main bread winnermy parents didn't spoil us t

  • Don't loose track of who you are

    When you get in the dating scene, you come accross many sale's menand i call them that because you are being sold a certain characteryou might even be groomed" by them telling you all the things that others didn'tmaking it like you're on cloud ninehowever don't loose track of who you are!sometimes p

  • Healthy sexy

    Because of society the picture of sexy tends to be images of "Slim & skinny" though it doesn't appear to look healthy when all you do is count calories or focus on the size of your jeans.....I remember looking at a painting of voluptuous women and that image being beautiful & sexywhy? because in the

  • How do you make a zombie care?

    I'm a single mother to 4 wonderful children ages 12,10,8,7, yes i'm never bored, and i get no sick days. I split with their father 5 years ago and it has been a rollercoaster with him. He's not responsible and has no participation in school events, conferences, or their life. He only sees them 1 tim

  • When she is into you!

    She looks foward to talking to you again how so? by sending you a text with how was your day? meaning she truly does care to hear from you* <br> She also puts plenty of effort in looking extra delicious everytime she sees you along with smelling yummy... so that you will notice <br> She makes eye contact along little gestures here and there, the body language says it all and unlike men we ask because we want to make sure that we're not wasting time. We like feedback on how you see us. <br> Her eyes will either be on you or on the food during dinner. Not that we're walking on egg shells or anything, but we know that you're looking. It's that intuition, also she will take you to her favorite spots so that you will get a feel of what she likes and makes it easier on you. <br> She has that much of a better outlook why? because you are on her mind!

  • Confessions of dealing with a disney dad

    <p> When I tell people that i have 4 kids and that i'm a single mother the reaction is the same. With that same question" how do you do it? As if i'm going to freeze or not deal with it like any other mother would. I was raised with both parents and not only that but have a great father, so i know what to do and also what to expect from a father. Never did i imagine after being with my kids father for 8 years that he would be the biggest disappointment. Specially because he knew that I had gone through a chaotic marriage with my ex husband who abused me. <br> I deal with the neverending disappointments from him. He only sees his 3 kids 1 day out of the week and as is he will blow up my phone the following day un patiently to see when i'm going to pick them up. it's like wow i get 1 whole day to myself when he has 6 days to himself, it amazes me. <br> Their are times when he doesn't even see them he will purposesly start a fight and hang up on me to not deal with being a parent. <br> But he will proudly put on his myspace profile "proud parent". And the cherry is that his mother backs up his behavior and inresponsibility. By bad mouthing me and giving him advice on how to not be on the books. <br> She was a single mother herself. yes! i know the apple doesn't fall to far from the tree" I hear of guys that want to see their kids and the girl will play foolish games" and here i want him to see his kids and makes reason why he can't <br> I do it all the parent - teacher conferences, answer to the school, doctor, dentist appointments. <br> Name it i handle it, and when i', sick i still do the laundry,cooking, cleaning. As a mother we have no time off. <br> I even told him that i could care less for the ,money i just want him to be a father and be involved. That still don't make a difference. <br> Today he called in the morning inquirring about the kids and wanting to see them, but yet told his son that he was going golfing. and would be back by 1pm only to call at 7pm! <br> I intook all the frustration and decided that i won't put my kids through this anymore <br> they deserve to be priority above all for a father to want to spend the whole day with them <br> the bright side to this situation is that it has made be more determined to pursue my goals,dreams,passions, and also a tighter bond with my kids <br> that's his lost </p> <p> "You can't force someone to be something that they don't want to be! </p>

  • best beauty products tried

    I love to try new beauty products but when i find one that works i share with my friends the feedback. So here goes on the following products:Mascaras: Stiletto by Maybelline NY love it! just like my shoes...this does wonders!Also Physicians formula" Plumping potion...wow it works like magic!"The co

  • Leaving a bad situation

    I was 17 when i met who i thought was the love of my life. He was charming and handsome, I hadn't ever been in a dosmetic violence situation until i met him. He did the whole threats, mental,verbal physical abuse. I had no one that could get me out of it but me. Our chaotic relationship lasted ab